focus on self love

My radical self-love program, that I embarked on several years ago, has completely and amazingly altered my life (and truly my consciousness and how I view world and myself in it) (OH AND has cured me completely from wasting any crazy amount of energy on tepid men) included:
-Reading Ask Polly (online there are a treasure trove of articles)
-Meditation as many days I could, even if only 5 minutes
-Exercise in some form, as many days a week as possible
-Talk therapy (HIGHLY recommend therapists who fully practice Integrated Family Systems)
-Only reading mostly from male dating coaches if I needed advice for a dating situation
-But who am I kidding? I was barely dating for over a year. Barely now haha
-Journaling
-Pruning my circle to only people who love, nurture, invest and uplift me
-Learning the daily practice, which will be a life-long practice of reparenting myself

BEWARE. Practicing this self-love program can make you so damn happy, contented and peaceful – dating men becomes a very low priority indeed. But the men I have had relationships or interacted with treat me like a QUEEN. Because at the FIRST HINT they do not (from first match conversations or months down the road) I am OUT. It teaches you to never, ever attempt to riddle out a man. Most especially ones who ain’t even courting you. You get to such a bounteous, beautiful head space – if a man isn’t supporting you or making it known how much he wants to connect with you – you freely, and gently, release them back to the universe. It really is like magic. Highly recommend.