For those who need help with NC and letting go.

Oh okay, I will.

Sass,
I think it’s great that you blocked him from social media and it feels like a burden has been lifted…

I just don’t feel like that’s the right course for me… I feel like it would be an impulsive move on my part.. And making an impulsive decision is what got me here right now.. by breaking up with him.. I know I’m strong enough to not look him up on there..

So Claire I’m with you.. I haven’t looked today and I plan on not doing it for a long while.. We will all be each others rock and I think keeping score on here will better our chances..

My day actually hasn’t been too bad.. I had a really busy day today at work, so no time to think.. And every time he did pop in my head I told him to get the F*** out..

The hardest thing is this roller coaster I’m on.. I’ll feel great for a few days.. Then I’ll feel sad.. Then mad.. Then hurt… Then back to feeling great again..

We can do it.. :)

It’s great your getting to the acceptance stage Harley… I have been in a good mood today.. but mad at him.. I like being mad.. makes me feel more empowered… I’m sure my sadness will come back soon.. So you going to Germany again??

How is your house coming along? I have an email from Anaya I haven’t replied back to yet.. I think it’s about 2 weeks old.. I feel bad I haven’t gotten back with her.. but I’ve had a lot going on… and haven’t really been getting on my email to be honest… I will reply soon.. Will you tell her I said I’m thinking of her and I’ll write soon??

I’m about to go to bed.. I need to catch up on my sleep..

gals, our emotion is normal up and down, but we will not afraid of wht happened! everytime when my brain starts to remind of my ex when i c sth. i will change my brain to another subject. just focus on the present nothing bothering me. and gals, everytime when we get mad or angry, we r making our body pain!
but we have the power to change it. ?
soon as u r starting to realise u have this power. u will b surprise how powerful YOU are.
i saw an article the other day. there is this japanese guy. we took photograph in the micoscope of the water. wht surprised him was he took the photos in different situation of the water. like one is normal. one was been pray and thankful. one kept say bad words to the water. and the particles on the photo shows the blessing water was become so beautiful and the other one been cursed has become ugly and unclear. meaning positive mind really affect us. imagine we keep hating ourselves? we r making us more wrinkles on our face, ppl surround us also can feel and we r way much better than this.

Yoyo, how long since you broke up with this guy??? I love your positive attitude.

Hi all…It WILL get better. like you Imena…memories and people to remind me. I like my memories. ..Whilst they are sad
…they are also incredibly happy so I don’t mind them.

Mandy. just got keys to house a work ago. It’s a wreak and needs serious renovation. I just put it back on the market as one came up closer to home…but I don’t see my one selling in a hurry ! what’s meant to be…will be.

I hope to go back to Germany for next July for wine fests….It will be a year since I met him. only 28 weeks away though ! There is no reason to think I shall bump into him though…I will tell our mates I am coming back….but not him. I get you stay with some girl mates this time. I hope to be well over him by then. I think I will probably go back to Germany every other yr now. I have made lots if friends there.

hang tough everybody. I will tell Anaya. she is crazy busy these days.

Imena…I go way down the bottom south east kind of Germany… right beside where Ryanair fly into Frankfurt Hahn. little villages called Lautzenhauzen, Buchenbueran and Laufesweiler. All within a 6 km radii of each other.

about an hour from Frankfurt.

Well….it’s good to dream…whether smoke or not…sometimes fire comes from smoke. time shall tell for us all. no harm in more education. . I am still laughing about the 30 yr old who asked me out for drinks !!!!

What did to you do with him? Did you arrange anything or nothing yet?
Yea, nothing wrong in more education. I hope ut works out though. I really need to start over again, a new place, a new beginning, new friends, and someone new.

Imena.. WHO are you talking to ???? if its me.. god NO.. I won’t tell Frank I am coming back. I’m treating it as over with him…We don’t even talk as mates right now. . so he has no need to know. This is just going back to see more old friends. We will avoid each other nicely.

You are just torturing yourselves.

They aren’t your friends!

Maybe one day, but right now they aren’t.

imena, he broke up w me on the phone 1.5month ago. i went on nc, after 2weeks. he said i disappear so he didnt care anymore. but he was the one said that on the phone to me. so we met once after 2weeks as he said he didnt make any decision. i assume we could get back. but finally he still decided break up. then i continue on nc. in the first 2 weeks he still txt me how was i. i just tell him politely i was busy. after tge 30days nc period. i start txt him friendly. he asked me meet get my stuff back last week. but he last mintue txt me say he couldnt make it at 10pm. was enough unrespecful. so i have decided to delete him in my contact and today i even delete his whts app history. is been 1 week already since last time he contacted me.