For those who need help with NC and letting go.

Yoyo, I got you. So sorry girl. They are so worthless. I don’t know why we still miss them or think about them when we mean so less to them, when we weren’t enough for them.

Harley, I don’t know whom I am talking with or what I am saying. I’m really bad right now. I’m so messy. I think I am going crazy.

Yea, that’s what I am trying to do sweetheart. I’m heading to my guitar class in 10 minutes. It will get better. It has to. I will move on, I just had a bad day, that’s all. It’s gonna be okay. I’m gonna be okay. This pain will end at some pint. I love you,too. You’re a great friend!

Evening ladies!

Im determined that we won’t all have a shit Xmas! Let’s kick these guys to the kerb now. Yep, memories are everywhere. I know what you mean imena, but like you say memories willbe cropping up for them too. Whatever’s happening they aren’t picking the phone up right now are they, so stuff them.

I feel a bit nothingish today, it’s s step up from the days of sadness I’ve had so feeling not much is progress. Next step is happiness hopefully…in time. The hysterical fits of tears as i come in through the door of an evening seem to have subsided too.

As I was walking for lunch today I just thought “what a ridiculous arsehole”, to chose a girl who broke off their engagement and left him with 20k debt over me… The girl who supported him and waited for him through a 9 month tour, sending him care packages every couple of weeks. The girl who moved her life to be with him and built a home for the both U.S. while he was away, because he said that’s what he wanted. What an absolute loser to not be able to see the wood for the trees. This girl must really have something special hey.

Anyway, I’ve just had the urge to check FB but managed to keep it under control! Yay Molly for joining me on this. It’s 2.5 days now. I hope I don’t crack. I just cant!! I have to get as far away from him as possible now for my own happiness.

I am blocked so I can’t stalk his page.

Although, I know his password but I’m pleased to say I haven’t logged on and checked it for around 3 months now :-)

Only time I’m tempted is because his phone syncs his pics to fb (private file), and last time I looked the selfies were there that he and her had sent each other. Cock and tits photos. Bit of revenge I thought to post his cock shot as his new profile pic!!!!!!

And then change the password…..

ANd.. if you can put on a dick pic.. put one on that has boils/herpes/ spots/pus………….you name it !

Hello ladies!
How is the evening going for you?!
Hey Claire, join us on Facebook. I do have that problem with stalking too but I am making progress. I do not stalk much, I don’t want to. I know it will only hurt and I have been hurt enough.

You know what hurts the most? He cannot see what a great girl I am and how I am moving on cause he lives in another country where the memories of us are not there. There are only memories of them both. I’m a lost case anyway. I don’t even know if I ever gonna see him again.

What you friend did about posting her ex’s number on every advertisement is cool, he lost peace.

morning gals, where r u gals from anyway? its morning at my side. yours is evening. ?
its a beautiful day today. temperature is just nice and warm. but i slept at very late last night. i was doing some reading and felt a bit sad. but i tried to observe my emotions and focus back to the present. probably os because my period is coming soon.
anyway, u gals r struggling with fb stalking, i would have this problem, as my ex never added me in his fb. i thought at the beginning of our friendship, he did add me but dun no from when i couldnt see him anymore in fb. but i never ask him abt it. infact i’d rather like to spend my time get to know abt him in person than from the internet. i knew he has alot of gals in all nationality in his fb, but i never care.
after this break up thing, the most hurtful thing i feel is he didnt stay, just left like that. when 2 ppl used to b best friend, lover. now no longer mean anything to him. and i also imagine he is back to his world, get any gal he wants for the night… i know i m starting being crazy again, Imgaine him w other gals, hurts me like a sharp knife.

anyway. even tho we broke up now, it doesnt mean we should blame our ex or trying evil things on them wish to make ourseleve feeling better, but everytime when u hurt someone, u r also hurting yourself. Imgaination is ok, but action will only make it worst.

how are you all feeling today?

Good morning ladies. I just woke up, it’s morning here too. I’m kinda anxious, this is how my mornings are cause he is the first though.

Yoyo, I understand what you mean about two people being best friends and lovers and now strangers. It hurts as hell, and also yea imagination and assumptions hurt too. It feels like someone else, another girl is living our dreams with them, but yea we just have to stop thinking and be present, just present , not wondering.

buttercup, my ex is also same, he said he still cares me, support me always, but his action proved everything. he knew he f*ck up everything, so he wont have the gut to talk w me nomore. somehow i have been feeling his disappearance would b something good for myself as well. while we r no longer contacting each others, i found my feeling of him starting to fade away, sometimes i even surprise myself could starting to forget our time being together, getting blurer and blurer.
i also studied at uk before for 4years. time flys and uk must b very cold now right?
u know after the break up, i have even thought to relocate myself, as i m not working in my country. i know if i move, things would b alot easier for me to move on, but i do not wanna allow another person to affect my chance in here. with him or without him, i can still have my happy life and my career. i dun want to choose the easy way. i must b brave and look forward! when god is closing a door, he will always open other door for us.
imena and harley, u gals seems are friends right? or you r all met in this website?

harley, really? they do think of us? yes. we never get the chance to know they do miss us. wish we knew, so we wouldnt b as hurtful. to b honest i felt i have already tried my best to love my ex. but unfortunately, the way we love or the way they want to b love is totally different. and yes, sooner or later, they may finally realised we are truly like an angel. surely, there r plently of gals out there, but i truely believe each of us were truely gave our heart to love them. we are high value woman !

Hey girls, yep they do miss us and think about us and as Harley says, it’s a shame we can’t see it but everytime they fight with their current gf, they think how great it was with us and how nice and supportive we were. Of course they do. The bad thing is just we do not have the luxury to see and enjoy it but whatever maybe it’s better this way cause it helps us more with moving on.

Yoyo, yup we all meet here girl. We are friends and lately we communicate on Facebook as well. We come from different countries and this forum has contributed to bringing us closer and for those who are physically closer like BC and Harley , it is a great opportunity to meet. Too bad I don’t live there. It would be great meeting you gals!!

BC, yep from best friends to lovers and lately to strangers in just a minute… It doesn’t make sense to me either, but what to do. It’s their choice. They chose it like this and we have to save out pride and dignity. We have given enough and had enough.

Yep, Agree Harley!! I seriously doubt he’ll get in touch. He knows he blew it and doesn’t have the guts to confront me. Yea, we are moving on here and we have to think a little beyond our feelings like, are they really worthy of us? Do we really wanna be with them? Can we trust them? Let’s see their flaws and weaknesses and evaluate whether they are worthy of us or not. But anyway, they might contact Claire and BC but I don’t think my guy will contact me again. I really feel it’s over.

Yea, a shame I’m not there. It could have been soooo much fun. I’m jealous!!

Yup, stop this fixation and let’s get logical, stop with emotional side of ours. We should think like a man and be a little more logical. If all these fools treat us poorly why do we obsess over them, why do we want them. I quote “Never go back to what once broke you!” Can’t be trusted.

Well, you never know… I might come at London for a visit someday, why not?! You just never know.