For those who need help with NC and letting go.

Ha ! me the same as you. still think of him every day…but I DO think it is a wee but less. i dont have any solution for you…..except to keep busy…try to distract yourself.. i am talking to another guy online but not sure if I’m Interested and if he’s just another lazy texter…time will tell. but again….it’s something to be at !

I’ll kick yours.. you kick Imena ‘ s. ..Imena can kick mine. ..then we’ll get new tenants…who PAY rent….homage to us. ha ha ha.

It feckin sucks doesn’t it ! I’m doing bloody all I can and he creeps in. ..I defo need a new love I retest. .god live ANY decent man that looks at me NYE….let along…god forbid….chats to me ! And….If he’s feckin German. ..I’ll shoot him !

I actually DID think of that Imena…We are trapping ourselves from talking more.. so from now on….we’ll talk about general stuff.

I’m back to work today. It’s very quiet. not many in. I have the rest of the week off and travel to new house Friday to see about getting some work done. The house needs complete gutting and renovating …so I will be busy for Months

yes. imena. the best thing to do is move on for our own sake. do things whatever make us happy. the rest throw them in the trash. today i m doing pretty good. i went out do a bit shopping, dinner with my family at home. packed for the short trip meeting one my good friend for the newyr. i will stay w her for 3 nights. i m sure it would b so nice and my friend has arranged a party too becoz its also her bday. actually i cried a bit last night. but today i felt good and peaceful. i think is becoz my period came. hormon problem!
actually, i didnt do anything especial for Christmas. just dinner w family. i have also cancelled 2 nights dinner meeting up my friends becoz i m still feeling a bit sick. so i’d rather meet them after i m back from my short flight. even tho didnt do much especial but i felt it wasnt bad at all. i felt happy dinner w my family. sometimes i feel i have become a very simple person. can b happy w very small things. is enough. ?
hope u all keep going!

Yoyo, I think one of the most important things to happiness is being content in every situation, even with little things. Sometimes there are those little things that make the difference. I’m glad you have made plans for NYE. That’s super! So you can distract yourself and have fun cause you so much deserve it.

Harley, that would be great, going out and kicking the heels, but unfortunately that’s not my case. I have already accepted that this NYE won’t be so much for me. It will be boring and kinda sad but I have accepted it and I’m ready to deal with it.

Imena. .He wants you to think well of him…so he wished it. There IS a part of him that is a nice guy.

Also…He wants to keep you on a string perhaps. you’ll never know unless he tells you….and even then you may not hear the truth.

my Frank is a nice guy…it’s not his fault he couldn’t love me like I wanted him to.

We. …just have to deal with this and get past it.

Well. ..time shall tell. no matter how much they hurt us…We let them…and they are not all bad. We ate nice too and we can be nicer than them and forgive.

you never know what the future holds. look at ma
e….A yr ago crying over my ex fiance of 23 yrs ago….now i see I was saved from a crap marriage. now Frank. ..whom I had an incredible night with to remember for the rest of my life…..and god only knows what I shall think of him Come next xmas.

God. ..moves in mysterious ways !

Yup. ..we’ll keep the faith and stop talking about them ! my online dating is….crap. maybe.. I’ll wake up tomorrow….to some hunk.messaging me !..I can dream ! Ok. …Bedtime for me.

I need help my boyfriend broke up with me last Tuesday….I have his coat … What do I do?

Hello, just a quick text to wish you a happy new year! I keep reading your texts and I found everything you ladies wrote very supportive and inspiring! I agree the best thing is not talking about them ,as every time we do it, we just give them much more importance than they deserve, I am sure they don’t even think about us as much as we do so why waste our time ? Yep Suave … Although Harley ‘s answer was quite funny and true, keep it , ready to go when he will ask for it, I am sure he will ask for it, but don’t bin it, that will show anger, meaning care , that they don’t deserve..
Ps:I agree with the texts situation as well … I am sick of that.. My last thought on it is:Pick up the bloody phone and talk if you want to talk don’t send short stupid texts , where are the men gone ???!!
Lots of hugs and smiles

Hey ladies, hope you all doing well and are positive for the coming year! I do expect good things from 2015 and I know good things will happen. It’s just today I’m kinda feeling nostalgic and I don’t know I miss that feeling of being with someone, being romanticized and cared and loved. It’s not necessary to be the guy who didn’t chose me, but I miss having a significant other in my life. Maybe I’m a lil emotional today, I don’t know. Anyway, hope you all are doing better! Take care of yourselves!

Good for you Harley!! I’m gonna stay home unfortunately. No one to go out with. Boooring!!!