Funny Women

Depends on the man and their priorities, if they want a serious relationship in their life right now or not, and even their age and maturity levels. Some men value this, some men value physical attraction more, some want something else entirely. Everyone is different, and we can’t read his mind, so there’s no definitive answer. Guessing and pining away and letting someone live rent-free in your head doesn’t help you, though. If a guy wants you, he will let you know, and if he’s willing to walk away from you, then he’s usually not worth waiting around for.

If you’ve got a great sense of humor and are easy to talk to, the right guy will really appreciate that about you, and the wrong guy for you won’t appreciate it no matter what you do.

I spoke to the guys at work about it and one of them is seeing a woman who makes him laugh but he doesn’t see her in his future and the other one is with a woman who makes him laugh and he is obsessed with her. So no rule there really.

Thanks mod. I wondered if this person was “Jane” who started the “Messed Up” thread– starting both posts with “Ladies” was a dead giveaway!

To the OP– the folks here want to help but it’s more helpful for you if you if you maintain a consistent name, like the moderator said, and respond to your original thread. I asked you for some additional info in your first thread that would help the community here give you better advice. But you haven’t responded to anything, instead you started a whole new thread with a different name. That won’t get you advice you can use.

To answer the question in this thread — as Ewa said, there’s really no pattern or rule. What makes a man miss a woman is more than making him laugh. He has to feel a connection with you. He has to feel his life is better with you in it.

You mentioned in your first thread that you were dating a guy casually (we don’t know for how long) and you had a disagreement and now he’s not speaking to you. I’d argue that if a guy can just totally cut you off over one disagreement, then he did NOT feel that he could be his true self with you. He did NOT feel that you communicated well. Maybe you felt that way about him, but it obviously wasn’t reciprocal, or he wouldn’t have cut you off. This sounds harsh, but it would be good if you reframed this situation mentally — a guy that would do this to you is obviously not the one for you. And that’s ok! You will eventually meet a guy who is the right one. The right guy would not treat you this way.