FWB Acting Odd

I can’t believe I am making a post about this but I honestly need to be cleared straight from this. 22, have an odd on and off hookup situation with this 21 year old. We live in the city but go to different colleges within the city. We hooked up once in October, he finished rather quickly (and instead of telling me he said he was…bloated at first…so he clearly feels bad about finishing quickly), I explained to him it happens and it was alright. We sexted? Tried to make plans? On and off for a few following months? I understood it was just a bootycall, but I tried to plan it even a day ahead of time, and he either took over 24 hours to reply, or straight up said no…in some of the oddest ways possible, and clearly only wanted to fool around on HIS TIME cause GOD FORBID I had some type of schedule. He suggested FWB finally in March, I agreed but then he pulled this manipulative move telling me how much he likes me, and I called him out on it. I fully realize my relationship with this guy is purely just physical, idk why he feels the need to say how he likes me, when I know he doesn’t. I have no romantic feelings towards this guy whatsoever, but me typing this out is making me realize maybe my ego is just confused? Will explain in next paragraph.

Sorry kinda chaotic explanation. Basically after him suggesting FWB and (he even asked me for a THREESOME), I was horny and wanted some spontaneous fun so last week he finally came over again and we strictly just got to business–which I all expected. I was definitely more relaxed than the first time, and enjoyed myself, but when it came to sex….he finished within less then two minutes.He told me he hasn’t had sex in awhile. I know, we are both young, and I had very low expectations I would be satisfied, but it was just so…quick. I tried to politely tease, and now looking back I wonder if he didn’t take it like that. I was a nice host though, gave him a tissue, we cuddled, lent him a phone charger, water.

We talked for a bit, and I was resting on his shoulder while he was checking his phone, and he was furiously typing something right in front of me, but as I was TRYING to be polite of his privacy, I just closed my eyes to not look. After his typing, like a minute or two he awkwardly was like “oh someone is calling me?” and answered the phone. Apparently a friend of his was having trouble trying to jumpstart a car and needed help. The person on the phone sounded frantic, but I told some other friends this and they think he needed an escape out. He seemed confused on why that friend was calling him specifically to help since he doesn’t have a car in the city, and I told him how to jumpstart it–even I said I can come and help if need be. He said no, and while we were getting dressed, he kept saying “thank you” and I told him to stop as this was a mutual exchange. He said thank you at least 4 more times, it was really ticking me off.

His uber took 10 minutes so I did wait with him, and he said “I can entertain myself I have my laptop” and I said “No, that is so rude, I am going to wait here with you”. He gave me a hug, and said thank you sorry again, and then he mumbled something about “I don’t want this to feel like prostitution…” and I am like ?????????. This guy is SO ODD. Did he really just wanna get out of there so bad? I implied I am around and open to sex again, and he told me he would text me to let me know if everything went ok. He texted me next morning saying “forgot to say the jump was successful”. Did I do something wrong here??? This guy seems to be all over the place, and for a casual f buddy I think I can probably do better, my ego is just confused.