Fwb gone wrong help!!!


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    Cassandrea

    Hello all I need some advice

    Guy iv currently been seeing since Dec iv known for about 9 years we have been on and off in that time I had a different relationship and now have A 7 year old he was married and is now divorced he is Muslim. When we 1st started the fwb we agreed no feelings and he said he did not want a relationship so we agreed to fwb which was fine. We do have very good sexual chemistry Over time I have developed some feelings but never let him know this. Last we saw each other was 2 weeks ago and he was acting very different was all over me staring at me funny etc mentioning how I never text or call him 1st etc.

    I can be very guarded and stand offish when I talk to guys as my ex really hurt me so don’t know if I maybe upset him but Everytime he would leave my house he would always text saying something about what we did etc this time he never.
    I left it a few days texted him a joke and he did reply but he would normally always send me Snapchats etc he hasn’t.

    Today he has texted saying “we shouldn’t see each other anymore as it’s not fair him just messaging when he wants something and it’s just messing around – straight up” I didn’t notice it right away as was at work so replied about 4 hrs later saying I thought we had agreed that’s what this was when we started it as he didn’t want feelings/relationshipI was confused but if that’s what he wants OK. He hasn’t replied?

    I should also add he is aware I was texting another guy but he never said we were exclusive so I assumed it was OK to date.

    I’m totally confused anyone any idea what his problem is?
    Iv always assumed due to his religion (Muslim) and my past relationship with my daughters dad (also Muslim) that we could not be in a relationship as his family wouldn’t approve as I’m not Muslim.

    Any advice would be appreciated do I just delete him off everything and move on??

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    Newbie

    I think i read his text the opposite as you did. That he wanted to stop as he only stays in touch when he wants something (sex) and you deserve more than messing around. When i read it again i realize you can interpret it as him saying he wants more. Anyway you have started to have feelings for pretty much a mr impossible so its time to think of our end game. Telling yourself you dont want more is a lie, keeping this going will get you hurt if he is not into it. So i guess you do have to talk about what next.
    Then you have to stop thinking of every guy being your ex out to hurt you. Better look at that to see what attracted you to the ex at first and turned out to be a big mistake.
    I think you are on a wrong path. Healing from your ex and getting emotionally healthy for letting love in in the future sounds better to me

    #817681 Reply
    Anon

    I think he’s no longer interested in FWB – he is most likely interested in pursuing a relationship with someone else and maybe he felt like he was leading you on with any type of relationship.

    #817728 Reply
    Zoe

    He met someone else

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