Ghosted after 3 months. I want to end on good terms.

I feel for this lady. I am 76 and have just been ghosted after 4 months of text & dating (met on a dating site). They are right when they say the person is immature, selfish, cowardly & disrespectful. It is nothing you did & you can’t fix it. Feel blessed that you didn’t get in deeper because it would happen at some point. I am just now making peace with it (2 months later as this has never happened to me before).

Another point – I have many men ask me out. Difficult with the current restrictions, I believe that meeting someone naturally is a better way. However I am in a new relationship where he wants to do everything for me and has declared he loves me. I am not sure I feel it but will never be such a coward as to ghost someone. Ladies, you do not lose your value & charms in your 20’s, 30’s, etc. – evidently not even in your seventies. You can say it’s a man’s world but you know we women have a lot of power. I went out dancing (not good at it) and got asked to dance a bunch. One guy asked for my number & asked me out 5 times. I decided I wasn’t interested & ended it. Just do the things you enjoy & live your life. If you meet someone, fine – if not, you did something you enjoy. Appreciate your vitality, beauty & value. Love yourself; you deserve it.

Patty you are awesome! This is the best thing I’ve read on this site in a long time :-)