Ghosting / Loosing Interest – Unanswered

Sounds like he was primarily hoping for sex. Since that’s not a possibility now because of the lockdown, he figures why put forth any effort or attention. You should thank your lucky stars you got to find out his intention now instead of way later.

Met him almost 2 weeks before lockdown I was not having hopes or fancy dreams..just amused and felt like a STUPID and a little hurt…
I didn’t text him again after I reached out to him once, I know this is not the expected behavior which I can be OK with in short or long run. I don’t know if I needed a closure ( I can’t ask him or anyone who I have met once) or a simple text “hey, it’s not working”.

I know action speaks louder than words…but then why not straight up conversation.

@J123 i thought the same…but someone who just disappears while having a normal conversation …will you reset/resume things ?

I think you seem pretty confident and rational, there is nothing wrong what you did, you got connected online if he didn’t take an initiative you did…most likely he was not interested in you earlier that’s why he didn’t initiate. But you being extrovert took the call ..way to go girl ! :) , but that didn’t change his perception of people who wants to date or meet. He probably had no plans so took your offer to meet ( or made it work) but he doesn’t want to take a stab unless and until you do..

so girl, it’s on you ..do you want to chase him..1 meeting in dating world is just as starter many times you have good time but it never leads to second or thirds..

so I would suggest you too focus on yourself :) don’t think what he thinks, why didn’t he …just you did you get to know this guy enough…dont biuold positive or negative fantacies..just let it go and flow

Also, someone you only dated once is telling you things are not working by their actions, they do not need to say it in words. It is not reasonable to expect a stranger to break up with you. Yes, it would be nice, but unreasonable to expect.

J123 makes a point, this might be due to pandemic.
If he comes back have a normal conversation but don’t wait on him because we don’t know when the lockdown ends. If he has done it once, he will undoubtedly do it again.
Even if he gives you a convincing reason..you shouldn’t entertain him the same way..he is highly Low Key value..whose opinion or existence shouldn’t matter anymore.

Kudos to You to not text and throw yourself at him for answers !

Fix your Tiara and Sing Thank you, Next.