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Home › Forums › Dating and Sex Advice › Guy I'm dating went on a 2 week vacation, should I msg him
Jess A.
Lucia
I’ve been dating this guy for a month or 4-5 dates and it’s going well.
He left for vacation on Friday and before he did we had wished each other happy Valentine’s Day. He’d said that we’re both due for a long day together cause of his vacation once he’s back.
I haven’t heard from him since. It’s been two days, should I msg him? Or wait for him to?
If he doesn’t reach out is it bad news?
Vera
No. I don’t recommend messaging him. He’s on vacation. You aren’t a couple . Let him reach out . If he doesn’t then you can re-evaluate when he gets back .
Kerry
Find a new hobby. Play the lotto. Hang out with your neighbors pet poodle but don’t I repeat do not contact him.
You will lose all power if you do. Stay strong sis!
Lane
Do not contact him.
Why? Because a man needs to miss you in order to move things forward. Men fall in love in a woman’s ABSENCE (can’t get her out of his mind) where women fall in love in a man’s presence. If he doesn’t miss you in the way he needs to miss a woman then its because he didn’t get those type of feelings he needs to progress. Trust me, you don’t need to do ANYTHING if a man is totally into because he will make darn sure you don’t forget about him!
If you need to remind a man you exist then you are in “chasing mode” and men have no desire to be caught by a woman they don’t want to be with. Always best to hold out for the man who thinks you’re the “bees knees” and will do everything to make sure another guy doesn’t snatch you away from him! :o)
Jess A
He reached out! Thanks all, it’s his vacation, so I’ll msg whenever he does but not otherwise.
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