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I’ve been seeing this guy for three weeks. Everything was fine until last week. Last week we didn’t see each other at all. Normally we go back and fourth with texting so i hit him up. I asked him where had he been and he said he had his kids because their mother had an emergency.
So i said “cool i understand” . So two days ago he texted me with an angry face emoji. And i said “what’s wrong, why the face?”
And he said “i haven’t heard from you” and i said “you were with your kids and you didn’t really text me back… you have to meet me half way… i don’t know your schedule”
So he said “my kids stayed longer than i thought they would and i saw your car at your mothers house but i didn’t wanna bother you and speak”
So that’s when he said “I’m always initiating dates or link ups with you” and i said “I’m not really a texter but i do initiate dates with you” and that’s when he said “the last two times it was me”
So i said “you’re supposed to be my boo but you’re a bad boo because i haven’t really seen you, you’re about to be fired” and he said “okay with a sad face”
Today i texted him and said “hey. “
And he never said “hey back” he said “yesterday you said i was fired from being your boo”
TL:DR; i was joking about firing him from us being together but i think he took me literally i just wanted him to put more effort into seeing me
TallspicyOh honey. Yikes. A man who is 24 with baby mama drama should already be a red flag. At 3 weeks you don’t know someone at all. He cant text you to let you know he has his kids?
But honestly, you are not much better. Never joke about a serious request. And never have real convos by text. It is not a good way to get your needs met and it is passive aggressive.
Is this man already your boyfriend at 3 weeks?
And yes, this man already wants you to do the lifting.
Pick up your phone and sort this out. One of you needs to be an adult.
UtleyThank you! He has no baby mama drama. He told me he had his kids
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