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Maddie
I have been dating a guy for close to a month. We have common interests and do lots of activities together.
However when we make out or have sex, he’s not all there. In fact several times when getting physical, got a text and immediately stopped kissing me to read it. One other time he got up and walked away to read a text & answer it. He also was extremely non chalant afterwards.
He would always look at his phone and say “looks like I have some text messages” and glue his eyeballs to the screen.
Is he not into me or what? We always enjoy talking and doing other fun things.
Raven
If his phone is more important than you, let him have the phone…
Why are you putting up with this non-sense?
AngieBaby
He’s got issues with sex and intimacy, and uses his phone as an excuse to cover it up. A man is on his best behavior the first few months when dating a woman he’s really interested in. If a guy did this to me more than once so early in dating, I’d cut him loose. It’s not going to get better. Not worth talking about. You want someone emotionally healthy and this is decidedly unhealthy behavior.
Ewa
well depends who is texting him, sounds like this guy might even have a gf.
But yes like Angie said , only a month and his phone is more important, you are wasting your time
mama
No need to analyze ad nauseum the WHY (sex issues, intimacy, etc.). I have friends who are like this, it’s not just romantic relationships.
Actions are all you can go on at this point in dating. His actions are definitely telling you that when he is with you, you are not his main focus. It’s been such a short time, this is him on his BEST behavior — when he’s trying to create a good impression. It’s all downhill from here, lol. And you are not going to change him or his habits.
I also vote that he’s a waste of time.
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