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Emily.
Teresa
I’ve always struggled with depression and have taken antidepressants in the past. Stopped because they too away my sex drive.
Have been dating a guy for about 2 months but he recently said we need to cool things down due to my mood swings. I really can’t help it. All my relationships end because the guy doesn’t want to support me and gets annoyed.
I feel doomed ro be alone forever! This is making me more depressed 😔 now.
Can any suggest something on how I can keep a BF?
Help please!
Raven
Please, talk to your Dr. & Therapist about this…
Debra Swingle
As a prescriber of meds – there are newer ones with less sexual side effects. Go back to your doc/NP and ask for something newer you haven’t tried. And tell that person WHY you stopped the last few times
AngieBaby
You have to deal with the root of your depression and that’s going to take more than drug therapy. Drugs are a crutch to help you heal, but they can’t heal you. What kind of other therapies are you doing?
Raven
“All my relationships end because the guy doesn’t want to support me and gets annoyed.”
It’s not the guys job to ‘support’ you… You need to get a handle on your mood swings.
Emily
If multiple men have broken up with you over the same issues, it sounds like you’re coming across as emotionally unhealthy and unstable. I realize depression isn’t your fault, but it’s also not the man’s fault and we are responsible for our own emotions, not the person we’re with. Until you’re in a better place, I would stop dating because the kind of men you probably want will want someone who’s in a good headspace.
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