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T from NY.
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AlyFD
Hi! I am looking for your help/opinions about a guy who is sending me mixed signals. We met randomly and our first conversation was short but cool. Then we added each other on Instagram. We had another short text conversation and the third conversation we had was long and we talked about many things. After that convo, I was hopeful because I liked him and I was genuinely interested. I noticed he wanted to talk but at the same time was distant and I decided to make a little research and found out he probably had a girlfriend(his high school sweetheart) and that they live 4 hours from each other. After that I said hi to him once and that was a short conversation and after that I decided not to initiate any conversation with him to see if he would initiate, but so far he haven’t. 98% of the time he is the first person to watch my Instagram stories, sometimes I post it and in less than 30 seconds he have already watched it. He likes every single one of my pictures right after I upload them. Sometimes I think he have his notifications on to let him now I have posted on stories or feed, because no one is that fast on social media haha. He acts like he is obsessed with me and that he is attracted to me, but he never talks to me. Sometimes I think he is indeed attracted to me but he is still dating that girl and feels guilty about it. But actually I have no explanation for behavior. Thoughts?
tammy
when you online you meet so many people. you interact for a bit with few but you end up meeting even fewer out of this few. and the chance that you meet the fewer again is even less. he probably talked to you a bit and thats about it. if he was interested he would have messaged more and tried to fix up a meeting. he hasn’t. nothing you can do . just forget abt him. there are so many people who like my pics on insta but they have never made any attempts to meet me. thats alright. thats how this online dating goes. forget him.
Ewa
it’s not mixed signals? have you actually met? if not, liking someone’s posts or watching someone stories means absolutely nothing. Do you really need a pen pal? why are you so obsessed with checking if he watched your story ?
now imagine, there is no social media, how would you gage someone interest ?Marlena
I think you’re overthinking it. If you think he has an obsession with you and it bothers you – then block him on social media. If it doesn’t bother you, then just don’t care whether he likes your posts or not. I would just chill out and take a step back, cause you are not dating, not even having a decent contact. So focus on yourself girl!
T from NY
There are no mixed signals. There shouldn’t even be a category for that in this forum. If a man blows hot and cold – he’s not interested ENOUGH. Or not in a mental place ENOUGH to offer you a relationship or isn’t healthy ENOUGH to be a good partner to you.
Train your brain to only like dudes, consider dudes, dream about dudes who show clear and marked interest. Your heart will follow. Women who play with tepid men are frustrated, sad and lonely. We’ve all been that woman. It’s not magic – it’s just a decision. You have to choose not to be.
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