Guy spaces out on our date

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October 18, 2022 at 11:25 pm #939036 Reply

Erin

I was on a third coffee date with a guy. He was showing me pics on his phone of stuff he built. He glossed over several sexy female pics. I didn’t say anything but I got a sense he wanted me to see them. He didn’t say who they were. Was he trying to make me jealous?

Also, suddenly during a break in our conversation, he turned to the roadway and spaced out for close to 2 min while I sat there.

He also moved far away from me suddenly while walking as it looked like he went to answer a text. His phone must have been on vibrant as I did not hear any “ding” sound.

Is this guy even interested in me at all? I got a weird feeling like maybe not.

October 19, 2022 at 12:59 am #939037 Reply

Raven

Third Coffee Date?
Who is doing the asking?

October 19, 2022 at 3:38 pm #939047 Reply

Maddie

Do you really want to be with a guy who is trying to make you jealous already on the third date? Or is so careless that he doesn’t even apologize when you see his sexy photo stash but still barely know him?? Trust your instincts.

October 21, 2022 at 1:59 pm #939072 Reply

Claws

If those are red flags to you, don’t want for another red flag. If they aren’t, give him a chance

October 21, 2022 at 2:18 pm #939074 Reply

Liz Lemon

I think by the 3rd date you should have a pretty solid sense of whether a guy is interested in you, and more importantly, whether YOU are interested in him. That’s really what you should be focusing on, by the way– whether YOU want to continue seeing HIM. It sounds like you’re questioning this guy’s intentions and actions. In that case you should listen to your gut, as Maddie said.
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