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Jess
So I (26) met a guy (36) through an app and we’ve been seeing each other every week since more than a month. He even asked to meet me before I leave for 2 weeks holidays, which I felt was nice cause I got a feeling he might be shy. So I came to his and watched a movie but nothing happened.
I met some of his friends, and hung out with his best friend, he met my best friend, and we are doing a lot of fun things together. However, he never initiated anything more, not even a kiss, so I started wondering where is this going, are we even dating? He is older so I assumed he wouldn’t be shy but I don’t know.
In the past weeks I felt a bit insecure about this ‘situation’, however, the regular meetings made me a bit more secure that it might lead to something. However, he hasn’t texted me once while I’m away (a week, coming back in a couple of days). I sent him a picture once, he replied but it was a closed-ended statement, so I didn’t say anything as I felt I had to initiate.
I feel I am in this limbo, I made a decision I’ll wait for his move but I am not even sure if he’ll ever message me again. It’s been over a month since we first met, but no progression. Should I move on? Thank you :(
T from NYWomen love words. In manspeak this man is saying he’s
A) not into you
B) just not into any relationship right now
C) lazyAll of the above ain’t worth your time. Let him lead, see if he steps up BIG time, or just peacefully let him disappear back into the universe.
KristenJust lean back. Aassume it is over if you have to so you can prove to yourself life is still good without him.
tammyi agree with others. dont bother. if he is interested he will show that. also not a single kiss despite 4 weeks of regular meetings and meeting with friends also . i would be a little worried about that cause thats not how things go usually.
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