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Home › Forums › Dating and Sex Advice › Haven’t heard from dating app guy since covid-19 outbreak :(
Khadija.
Katie
We were messaging on bumble. We had great banter and he really seemed interested in me. Though he only replied ONCE A DAY with long thoughtful messages. He suggested meeting up but then said ‘I think our meeting up will have to be hold off for a while, such a shame. Looking forward to meeting you soon x’. I replied with another nice message but I didn’t hear from him again. He’s not been active on the app for 3 days and he hasn’t asked for my number?
if he hasn’t asked for my number does that mean he’s not interested?
If if he says ‘looking forward to meeting you soon x’ does that mean he’s genuinely interested in meeting me.
Why would he only message once a day?
Anon
Now is definitely not the time to overthink anything. You are a relative stranger to him, he may be sick or anything. This is the time to be concerned about the real people in your life- family and friends. He may contact you after awhile when this crisis has subsided somewhat.
Tallspicy
Oh honey, really? Do you not have other things to worry about or focus on?
Many people are off of dating because it creates false intimacy to interact too much with someone you don’t know.
Why would he message only once a day? You are a stranger. He is not invested in you.
You are way way way over invested in a stranger. Focus this time on loving yourself.
benteley
I understand how you feel I know is very frustrating when your starting to like someone and disappeared. Well since he is an app guy and you haven’t met him in person we don’t know what’s going on in his life for now. We wish that he is not affected with COVID19 and for now the best thing you can do is to pull back and work on your self.
Try to uninstall the app for 2 weeks and don’t glue your self in your phone if he really interested to you he will message you back and put an effort.
You are beautiful , get life and don’t panic :)
Newbie
You cant really judge interest based on texting alone. In fact if there is no exhange of phone numbers, no setting dates (well not in this situation but normally), only one long text a day and 3 days of silence, those are all signs of low interest
Khadija
Let this go and worry about yourself.
I’d log off from online dating for a while because given the guidelines its gonna be a while before people can safely be out meeting one another.
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