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tammy.
Danamay
I have gone out with this man about 4 times. He is in a Rocky marriage but they are still living together at this point. Yes we have kissed and made out but I am not willing to go further until decisions are made on his end. We definitely do not see each other often sometimes 2 to 3 weeks go by in between. When we are together there is definite chemistry and he always says that it just feels so natural to him. What does that even mean?
Gaia
It means he isn’t serious about you. He hasn’t left his wife. You are helping him cheat on his wife. As long as he is living with her, not even separated, you are having an affair.
Raven
Why are you ‘dating’ a married man?!
Maddie
It feels natural that you have sexual chemistry, and it’s easy since he barely knows you and doesn’t need to think about any of the other responsibilities that come with an actual relationship. It’s a nice temporary distraction for him.
You could find a different man who is emotionally available to you, not married, and not a cheater. If this is how he handles his problems, he’d do exactly the same to you later on if he actually left his wife and wanted to commit. Stay away from cheating and otherwise committed men. He has problems he needs to be mature and deal with but isn’t (which says a lot of negative things about his character), and it’s disrespectful to his wife (and to yourself!!) for you to knowingly allow yourself to get pulled in.
Danamay
Excellent advice that I know but needed to hear. Thank you!
Sophia
What Maddie said all.day.long!
tammy
well maddie has said it all. first rule of dating. please stay away from married men, separated men and recently divorced men if your looking to date with the intention of getting into a serious relationship.
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