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Aaliyah
Ok Gals, and Guys, Hopefully!!
I have been into my best guy friend lately and I think maybe he has been feeling it too.. but I feel like I have been trying to decode his words a lot lately.. and I don’t know what this last thing meant…
So long story short, he’s been thinking about a class to get an extra certification, I had some time, looked into it for him, send him the link, info, etc.. he replied back, “I appreciate everything you do for me, just so you know, thank you”.. we;ve known each other for 3 years.. could this be taken in more of a romantic tone or am I just reaching? :(Raven
Sorry, you’re reaching…
ANM StaffKeymasterHi Aaliyah – I wanted to jump-in here and point out something that might help move the conversation in a helpful direction for you.
You were given some advice when you posted in this thread. (That’s a recent example. There are more.)
I believe your questions are sincere and you really want to figure this situation out. I hope that our community’s advice helps you!
Everyone may be able to offer more specific and helpful advice if you can tell us what advice has helped you before, or what advice just doesn’t seem to help. It’s okay if you don’t feel like advice from before helped. Just explain why, and that can help everyone come up with something more specific.
It’s okay if you feel indecisive about what to do and you post more questions later. But if you do, please let everyone know that you’ve posted before. That’ll help everyone give you better advice.
Good luck!
Raven
Thanks @Mod.
Again, he’s married
Liz Lemon
OP, you are not going to get decent, relevant advice if you leave out MAJOR details like the ones in your other post. But something is telling me that you don’t want decent, relevant advice…..if you did, you wouldn’t make disingenuous posts like this.
I stand by the reply I made in your other post. The guy is married. You should be distancing yourself from him, not trying to win him over with little favors….
AngieBaby
SMH. Oh honey. You’re so dishonest.
You’re lying to us about the situation. You’re lying to yourself in a dozen different ways about him. You’re lying to him that you are just friends. And the two of you are sneaking around behind his wife’s back, which is a giant lie. And he’s no better than you are.
He wants to take a class and you run off and do the legwork for him to get information? You think if you act like a wife he’s going to dump his wife for you? That must be your logic, because you’re posting here yet again under another name, desperate to hear that his thank you has some kind of indication he’s romantically interested in you.
NOTHING GOOD COMES FROM BEING THIS DISHONEST.
He chose his wife and child over you. You are nothing more than an emotional crutch and a side piece to him.
I’m being brutally straight because I think you really need to hear it.
You are wasting your life something terrible. All these years pining after him, you can’t get that time back. Why do you not want someone who is available and interested in you?
What I said on July 7 I stand by:
You may miss him for a while but you will get over it. You have to accept what you had with him is gone and isn’t coming back. I”m betting you’re hoping he’ll break up with her again and come back to you and that’s why you’re still hanging on to this situation.
What you’re both doing by staying connected is extremely selfish and unfair to his wife.
Time to decide what kind of a person you are and what values you hold most dear… and live by them. This is a dead-end situation for you.
Maddie
Lol, where can I get someone to take care of my errands for me in exchange for nothing but a verbal thank you? What a good deal for him!
I stand by my past advice, too. Leave this situation for your own sake. Or let him keep taking advantage of it, your choice. Posting about it repeatedly won’t change it.
Sophia
He’s married. Grow up. Move on.
And thank you, ANM Mod, for saving us from wasting anymore time on this.
AngieBaby
Sophia you nailed it in 6 words. Applause.
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