He Brought Me Flowers! But Is He My Boyfriend?

So I’ve been seeing this guy for a little over a month. He’s fantastic, we get along very well. He comes to see me at least twice a week, always spends the night, is extremely affectionate and we have great sexual chemistry. We talk on the phone a few times per week, but we text all day every day.

The issue is he hasn’t brought up exclusivity yet. I understand it’s quite early. Within the first 2 or 3 weeks, he was introducing me to his friends as “my friend, Emy.” Which kind of bothered me, but I never indicated as much.
Now, he introduces me to new people with a simple “This is Emy!” And doesn’t use the “friend” qualifier.

There was also an incident a few days ago where he said “I don’t know why you’re with me, then.” In response to me saying I’m not into a certain “type” of guy.

Anyway, yesterday was valentine’s day and he didn’t end up waking up until 2pm. He had asked the night before, right before his band played a show, if he could come by the next day, then- at 2am- he wished me sweet dreams and said he was looking forward to seeing me the next day.

When he woke up, he said he would come over at 8PM. I was a little disenheartened. That’s really late for a valentine’s date, but we hadn’t talked about valentine’s whatsoever. We didn’t communicate until he told me he was on his way over.

I opened the door to see him standing with an arm full of roses and him holding (my favorite) chocolate cupcakes. He had a rose in his teeth and was grinning at me. I was so excited. He’d also brought homemade cookies.

When he was in my room he played me a song on his guitar and asked about my day, said I looked beautiful. We had mind-blowing sex, twice, and then he worked on some music stuff for his band while i played videogames on my laptop. We watched a movie and tucked in to bed, and he said “happy Valentine’s Day” and kissed my hand.

My question is, we haven’t had any “talk.” But does this mean we’re more or less together? I’m so confused.
I got up to make tea (hes asleep now) but I can’t get this question out of my head.
Help!