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Tammy.
Summer
I’m dating a guy for 6 months, in the distance, we see each other when we can, lately (last month) he contacts me, I reply and almost right away he says bye. He says he is too busy at work, which I know is truth, but why contacting me if he can’t speak at all?
I’m absolutely confused by his behaviour, I miss our conversations, but also I think maybe he is losing interest, but then why contacting me at all?
Raven
Is this the relationship that you want?
Ruby
So you barely see eachother because of long distance but you barely speak too? This is not dating. This is a guy who has a whole life (his real life) that doesn’t include you. Unless you can provide more information on how you’ve been communicating and how things are when you saw eachother last. Also how do you know he is telling the truth about being busy with work?
Summer
he is confusing me a lot, sometimes I think he doesnt care or else he would find time, the day has 24 h, then again he keeps texting JUST to say hi.
I’m disappointed. I know he is busy at work because a cousin of mine works in the same company, he doesnt lie. But the day have many hours.
When I start to think that this is over, he says hi, and I go back to feel bad and confused…
Peggy
No need to be confuded…there is nothing for you with this guy. Stop replying to his contact. move on.
Tammy
Next time if he says hi dont bother. Unless he has more to say stop responding.
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