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Home › Forums › Dating and Sex Advice › He described sex with me as “decent”
I asked my boyfriend how was the sex and he said “it was decent”
Does that mean the sex was bad? Or mediocre Or was he not feeling it ?
After he told me that i was decent in bed he asked what was my opinion of him in bed then he changed from sayinfb “it was decent “ to “it was good”
You really shouldn’t ask these types of questions…
They’re needy & you didn’t get the answer you wanted & now you’re feeling bad…
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Never ask someone’s opinion if you’re going to get upset by their answer. Its like asking a man if your fat or does this outfit look good as another’s opinion/view may be different than yours so you need to accept and respect it even if its not what you wanted to hear. Do you want him to lie or be honest with you? If you opt for lying its not doing you, him or the relationship any good as you’ll soon not be able to trust what he says. This is why its best to always strive to be honest with each other and appreciate their honesty even if its not the answer you wanted or were hoping for.
Decent IMO isn’t a bad thing. His honesty now provides you the opportunity to discuss and explore what you and your partner like sexually so that it can become great :o) By taking what you deemed to be negative and turning it into a positive, you have an opportunity to improve your bond and make your relationship stronger too—a win win!
Depends where you are from but in the area of the uk i am from decent is a positive thing! Just chill and don’t ask silly questions where you seem to want a specific answer!
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