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Khadija.
Gray
During a topic of conversation about feelings the guy I was seeing said he had no interest in meeting my family and that he didn’t want to introduce me to his family. I only know one member of his family and that is through a mutual friend. I think it’s because I’ve told him how my family treats me in comparison to my brother which my brother is treated better and he doesn’t see that as fair for me and in return does not like my parents. He doesn’t feel comfortable with me meeting his family either for some reason and has not told anyone about me. Is there a way to change this mindset?
Anonymous
Bad signs. Walk away, he’s not into you.
Maria
How long are you together? It is, indeed, a bad sign. If you are recent, then maybe meeting his family is too early, but not telling anyone about you is definitely a bad sign.
Nellie
Sounds like another shady fuckboy.
Walk away and find someone who’s proud to show you off.
Bedazzle
I do think that is a pretty small sliver of your life to comment on. Overall it sounds shady, but in the scheme of things what does your relationship look like? How long together, is he courting you, do you feel secure in the relationship, is he committed, etc, etc.
Just keep your eyes open. You know when something does not feel good.
Bedazzle
No, you can’t change his mindset, only he can.
m
what is your specific relationship status? I’d say it’s a 90% sure fire indication that he sees zero future with you. But we don’t have enough information to say anything definitely.
Em
Gray
“Is there a way to change this mindset?”
I think there are two problems here assuming you both want to establish a meaningful relationship.
The first being if he wants a meaningful relationship with you he is going to have to interact with your parents to *some* extent down the road. In life you are going to have to work with people you dislike sometimes. Even if you have a good reason to dislike them. Refusing to meet them at all sounds to me like a person who can’t make the most out of hard situations.
Same reason for the second problem…why does he not want you to meet his parents?
I would not be looking to change his mind. I would be changing my mind about him.
Shanaya
Nope. Walk away. He’s just giving you BS reasons so that you stick around on his terms. He does not want anything serious. Seems like a classic f*ckboy!
Khadija
Please stop seeing this guy.
That’s a big deal and in so many words he’s told you there is no future.
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