He has nudes of girls

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June 8, 2015 at 2:00 pm #434095 Reply

Keka

My boyfriend and I live together and has been together for 1.5 years. Well, He always said he doesn’t like porn videos but found out that he has a fold on his computer with pictures of hot girls. He saved lots of pictures on last Thursday. I wouldn’t care if he watched porn, but I do care and bothers me knowing he saves hot girls pictures on his computer. He saved the pictures on Thursday night, and the computer stays at the living room. On Thursday night I was in our bedroom, which is beside the living room. I found it very disrespectful.
Makes me think I am not hot enough.
I won’t ask him to stop looking at them, but I told him it bothers me. What do you think?

June 8, 2015 at 2:10 pm #434098 Reply

Gemini615

I highly doubt he doesn’t like porn videos. ALL guys watch porn and they like it; there’s nothing to be threatened over or feel upset about unless it is significantly impacting your relationship.

If it is a computer you share, just ask that he please remove the pictures from the computer and instead look at porn on his phone or something if he insists on doing it. That way he’s respecting the space you share while you’re respecting his right to view porn if he wants.

June 8, 2015 at 2:56 pm #434111 Reply
Eric Charles
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Ummm… so does every guy on Earth… hell, you should see me when I hand my cell phone to someone else so they can look at a picture of something and they start swiping around… you better believe I grab my phone back with lightning speed.

Guys like looking at naked girls… I can tell you that when I get into a relationship, I’m still going to look at hot naked women… when I’m married, I’m still going to look at hot naked women… but (and this is important), the woman I’m with is going to know that it means nothing about my love for her and chances are the woman I’d be with would probably enjoy it. ;)

Don’t make something into a problem when it’s not… guys like looking at naked women and there’s really nothing deeper to it.
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June 8, 2015 at 3:12 pm #434115 Reply

Keka

But I am hot too, of course I am not photoshopped to look like a hot Angel like the girls in the pictures. But even if I am hot it’s not enough for him? Does he need to look at other hot girls?
I am sure he wouldn’t like to see photos is guys with huge dicks and six packs on my phone.

Btw, thank you for replying Eric, your emails always helps me.

June 8, 2015 at 3:47 pm #434126 Reply

Gemini615

Keka, your expectations are not in touch with reality. You will NEVER meet or be with a guy who doesn’t like looking at naked pictures of girls unless he’s GAY.

As Erica said, it is in no way an indication of his lack of interest or love for you. He’s a guy and they all do it.

June 8, 2015 at 3:54 pm #434132 Reply

Keka

Thank you Gemini :(
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