He Hasn't Opened My WA Message In Two Days But Is Active On FB. What Should I Do

After yesterday when he messaged me back after I reached out asking if he was ok as he was silent for 4 days we chatted briefly about work and he was saying he was sorry he hadn’t reached out he was very tired from the night shifts I turned my phone off and left it for the rest of the day because I thought to myself hmmm perhaps his just not that interested in me anymore and why should I reach out to him again. I don’t chase no man who shows no interest however I believe I did do the right thing though by reaching out to ask if someone is ok I don’t regret doing that at all.

When I woke up this morning I had a WhatsApp message from him he was trying to make a conversation with me so I was like erm this is kinda weird as I thought he wasn’t that interested in me anymore?

You have to understand, there are plenty of guys out there who will text or message you with no intention of taking it further. They do it because they like the attention. This guy has made no mention of seeing you again and goes days without getting in touch (working the night shift is not an excuse– if a guy is interested in a woman, she’s on his mind, and he will contact her no matter what).

So when we say he’s not interested in you, we mean he’s not interested in seeing you in person, getting to know you, or trying to build a connection. He’s made that clear. He is perfectly fine with messaging you once in awhile and having your attention over text. It’s an ego boost for him. Don’t mistake what he’s doing for genuine romantic interest.

Hey
Do a few things.
Firstly, you sound so grounded and head on tight to not be spamming him.
Does his last online show on WhatsApp?
I’ve literally been on couch with my other half on the couch asleep and it’s shown him as online on FB. Is he posting liking or interacting with anyone on FB at all? Could it be he’s just scrolling but is actually not communicating with anyone atm? If he needs time out?
It sucks when they suddenly act differently. My guy does this lots for no reason related to me but he suddenly withdraws a bit then he’ll come back. Usually when he has a lot on at work (we work together a it and I always see it coming!) … 99% of the time it’s unrelated to us.
Another point … maybe he’s trying to entice you to chase him a bit. Some guys do play games 🙄
My honest advice is this:
I’d leave it for as many days as you’d usually not have contact (unless you’re in touch every day).
Because you’re not official I’d say a week then I’d call him.
I wouldn’t even ask him why he hadn’t read the WhatsApp as that feels like cross examination.
Just be normal like mornings happened. If he’s going through stuff he’ll appreciate that you’re not another source of something he has worry about.
Meanwhile live your life.
If he doesn’t answer the call don’t call again or follow up txt He’ll see the missed call but do leave a voicemail just being upbeat and normal (no “where’ve you gone” digs!)
After all that if there’s no response just move on.
No need to block. You’re a grown up.
People are allowed to change. It’s a shame they don’t communicate it better but it is what it is xx