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So I was talking/seeing this guy I met online for a month. He was initiating majority of the contact either through a text message or snap chat in the morning and conversation would continue off/on throughout the day. He also added me on instagram and snap chat.
About a week ago the communication faded out and I haven’t heard from him in a week, but he will still look at my snap chat stories that everyone can see. To top it all off he told me the day after meeting me in person that it was rare for him to like a girl as fast as he did me so I must be something special. Following that statement he said he hoped this could turn into something. We would hangout at least once a week and sometimes more if I would stop into his clothing store to chat for little while with him. He even invited me to event he hosted at his store which was weekend before the contact stopped. His friends asked me to join them out and I was hesitant because I could tell he was stressed, but he never once told me to leave. The next day he even sent me text apologizing for acting like a jerk and said him being irritated and stressed was no excuse for it. I have attempted to reach out to him via text message couple times asking if something happened or if he was seeing someone else, but have received no response. I can only assume he’s seen my texts since he’s looked at my snap chat stories since his lack of communication. I’m at a loss right now because I felt like things were moving along naturally and at good pace. He showed and verbalized interest. Guess I’m not sure what more I can do at this point?YamsHe snaps you and checks your stories cuz it’s easy and honestly these days people send snaps to like EVERYONE. I’ve got guy friends sending snaps of their abs to me and all my friends and we are just like…wtf.
Why would he unfollow you or stop sending you mass snaps or checking your stories? He’s not mad at you or anything… You only cut ties like that when you genuinely hate the person. In this case he’s indifferent, which in terms of a relationship is worse than hate.
All you need to know is that he’s ignoring your texts. For whatever reason he’s not feeling it. There are a gazillion possible reasons why. All you can do for your own sanity is move on.
LatoyaOkay so I meant this guy on Instagram he wrote in a DM 1st and started a conversation. Than a couple weeks later I seen him at a restaurant. We exchange number like 3 weeks ago I was only playing with him he ask me which wawa I go to I told him and I said when I run into you I make sure I look pretty. He text me and go serious and said yea I catch you in Traffic I was only playing with I text him he don’t respond back. But ever time I post a picture on Instagram story he looking at it but won’t respond back to my text so I stop texting don’t have cause it really wasn’t that serious
EvaHonestly I watch stories of people I don’t even like. It’s just there when you are flicking through.
My firend was seeing this guy, he still follows her but stopped texting. Every now and then he would reply to her story but never initiate meeting.
Men are weird. Maybe they get some kick out of dangling girls via social media.
Best thing. Don’t give him the power and block him. You don’t need that in your life
T from NYAs written – All you need to know is he’s ignoring your texts.
Do not let this guy back in. It will weaken your self image over time. He’s immature and unkind to ignore you. Be GLAD he showed you what he is so quickly and move on.
RavenTime to purge your lists…
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