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Rylee Celaya
There had been so much going on I feel like sexually our chemistry had been so off. I feel like I am begging him to touch me or to just make me feel wanted dad needed and I eel like it’s turned into me always asking him for sex just to be honest. I asked him the other day why he hasn’t went down and he says I get to wet anyway I feel extremly self conciouse nw and hurt. He used to not care wha do I o please help!
PearlCommunicate, talk to him, tell him how you feel.
WarasenTime to find someone new.
Liz LemonHe should be going down on you because it feels good and gives you pleasure. Not just because it gets you wet. Stop going down on him and see how he likes it, tell him he gets hard anyway so there’s no need….
How old are you? How long have you been together and are you having other issues in the relationship? When sexual chemistry goes way off there are usually other problems that need to be addressed. Whether they are physical/medical or emotional, or things that have come up in the relationship, etc. There is a level of normal waxing and waning of sexual desire over time, you’re not always going to be having a lot of sex, but you shouldn’t feel like you have to beg him or like he doesn’t want you.
LaneIt sounds like he’s lost attraction and is emotionally checking out of this relationship.
Men do fall out of love when they are bored, no longer feel excitement, lose attraction, etc. I don’t know what your relationship looks like, how long you’ve been together, what you do with you time when together so its hard to know but I wouldn’t shove this under the rug and hope it goes away because when a man stops wanting to have sex with his woman, if he’s fully able and cable of it, its never a good sign as e may be getting it elsewhere.
Better off singleOh big deal. He just wasn’t feeling like it. Get a vibrator.
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