He offered to go take care of his ex (he wanted to marry) who has fallen ill?

Lane,

I know he doesn’t love me. It’s only been a few months.

But don’t you think he has feelings for me?

I heard him tell her “I don’t hate her. It’s not like that” a couple of times. When she asked if he had feelings for me and his response was, “I don’t hate her” he didn’t actually say no. If he didn’t have feelings for me he would’ve said no instead of being evasive with “I don’t hate her”. Why didn’t he say “no I don’t”?

Also this is my last post, i tried to explain to you what real love looks like. Youre not interested. Good luck to you though

Cappygyal- As you were told in other forums, it appears you are willing to accept a guy you’re supposedly “dating”, doesn’t hate you. That actually means he merely tolerates you. This has been dead in the water and your constant dissection of every little word he has said, and words all of the posters from the forums have said, is extremely unhealthy behavior.

You are told the same thing, don’t accept it, then follow up with another silly question. “Doesn’t that mean he has feelings for me?” “Isn’t that a sign he wants to spend time with me?” “Well if he still loved her, wouldn’t he be doing this or that?” Next time, repurpose your flight money for some therapy.

You are totally fine with his response “I don’t hate her” smh. You need some serious therapy to work out what on earth you see in this guy who talks of you in such a disrespectful way with his EX!! Saying he is probably going to have sex with you?? He doesn’t hate you? Offering to take of her …. speaking to her mum?!! This is insanity on your part.

also, how is it that you know the ins and outs of the conversations he has with her and others??

Please try and listen to the great advice you’ve had here and your other posts

You would take “I don’t hate her” as he has feelings for you? Your standard is quite low there, sister. And that’s a conversation he had with his ex. He did not even have the gut to tell her to her face that he has moved on, certainly, he has not. He is still into her. Their break up was just a mistake, they will be back together very soon. You are just an episode during their break. Move on with your life already.
From reading comments, you use different names to post your questions. Seriously you think you would get different answer if you show up as a different “personel”? Your problem is still the same even if you change your name. You don’t have to accept other people’s advise, but you eventually will have to face the truth, you are not the one.