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Mae
Update?
beth
appointment was ok—going back on thursday
Mae
How are you feeling? Did you end up hearing from him?
beth
he said he was done watchion his son concert ad was feelind and would talk today
Mae
You seem reluctant to share any details. I hope you didn’t reach out and he was the one to reach out first. I hope you are feeling ok- hang in there.
beth
that’s all–he txted and I was really hoping to see and talk to him ut he said he was not feeling well and would prefer to talk tomorrow n(today)
beth
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Siya
Hi Beth,
From the chat it looks like he is going to reach out soon. But even if he doesn’t don’t text/call him . He should catch up in a few days now. Take care.
beth
IDK
Mae
Did the appointment help you to put things in perspective a bit?
beth
I just did a lot of talking–crying about everything going on
Beth
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Hannah
It was probably good for you to get some things off your chest Beth. Have you booked an appointment to go back again?
Well it’s good he contacted you to reschedule. At least you know what’s going on and that he does want to talk. Let us know how it goes.
Beth
He said tonight
Tonight is overHannah
Urgh beth nightmare! Give him the benefit of the doubt. Maybe he’s still feeling ill and can’t cope with a big conversation at the moment. I do think it’s a bit mean he didn’t let you know though
Have you texted him or anything?Beth
We had a schedule change so I texted him and told him the times I had to talk because he suggested talking but he didn’t respond
Beth
But nothing since
Beth
@hannah
Tonight’s done
He said he’d prefer to talk todayBeth
Feeling yucky
Siya
Hang in there Beth. Its going to be better.
When is your next appointment scheduled ?Beth
I don’t know if I’m going to hear from him
I don’t know what to do
I don’t think he’d just say that
Appt is tonightHannah
Ahh beth! Have you not heard from him at all?
Beth
@ Hannah
No
Not doing good
Maybe he was sick
He said tues he was feeling unwell
IdkSiya
Yes, It must be difficult Beth. Not knowing the answers.
He must be busy or may want some more time before having that conversation. Give him that time as difficult as it may seem now.
But at the same time please try to engage in improving yourself and taking the best care of your child. Also, make the best use of therapy.Siya
Don’t again text/call for asking about the meeting. Wait for few days, like maybe a week and then contact him. If he doesn’t meet soon/ doesn’t reply/ shows flaky-ness , then you have to move on.
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