he said he needed space

Beth, you need a plan… and you need to stick to it.

Beth,

I think Emma is trying to tell you to be prepared for whichever way the situation goes. Stand firm in your convictions and don’t “give in” if he says he wants to get back together. You take back your power and tell him there are things YOU need to work on and think about before you can re-commit.

If he says this is it, don’t pour your emotions out. Have a plan to wish him well and say goodbye with dignity. Then call up a friend right after he leaves.

Do you think you can do that?

Whatever the scenario, please continue going to therapy for the foreseeable future.

Isn’t it almost 9 pm there? He was supposed to be there to see you by 8?

Beth, keep us posted.

Stay strong, Beth! Remember whatever direction the conversation goes, you are smart, caring and and your little girl adores you and needs you. You deserving of real love (most importantly from yourself! :)

Let us know how it goes.

Agree with Ashley, music is amazing and gets us through any situation! Or cuddle your little daughter or get some fresh air with a nice walk :)

Now it’s 830

I’m peeking out the window to see if he comes bringing my stuff

He txt 730 and said he would be here 830
It’s 833 now

Did he show or not? It’s after 9 pm.

Kyra, chill. Don’t you think they’d be talking instead of her typing on this site. Give it more time.

He doesn’t think he can give me what I need right now

He cares about me and still wants to see me
But as far as commitment – he’s not there