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Christy
Men don’t give off “signs” when they’re interested; they pursue you. If he’s not asking you out, he’s not as interested as you think. Let it go.
EstherHello there was a guy in the same class as me.i didn notice him at first but he suddenly staring at me and i notice that for a few times . And that action of him flattered my heart. I feel weird at first because he never talked to me before but staring at me with a serious face its sure catch my attention.its also makes me felt akward. It keeps on like this for a few days. At first i didnt want to think about it so i just ignore it. But recently he suddenly teasing me and looking and staring that makes me feel akward, happy, flattered. I tried to ignore it even my heart started to get more and more flattered. Few hours after that he sat beside me and i am eating. It makes me felt akward and nervously but tried hard not to make it obvious. He suddenly talked to me and for sometimes i thought he is not the one who talking to me. So i look at him a few seconds just to confirmed it then answered. After that when we walked in the hallway i saw him looking at me and smile so i smile back. Is he interested in me or what? He never intiated texting or calling me. It seems that i am the one who is more interested, liking and into him
EstherHello there was a guy in the same class as me.i didn notice him at first but he suddenly staring at me and i notice that for a few times . And that action of him makes my heart flutter. I feel weird at first because he never talked to me before but staring at me with a serious face its sure catch my attention.its also makes me felt akward. It keeps on like this for a few days. At first i didnt want to think about it so i just ignore it. But recently he suddenly teasing me and looking and staring that makes me feel akward, happy, flattered. I tried to ignore it even my heart flutter more and more . Few hours after that he sat beside me and i am eating. It makes me felt akward and nervously but i tried hard not to make it obvious. He suddenly talked to me and for sometimes i thought he is not the one who talking to me. So i look at him a few seconds just to confirmed it then answered. After that when we walked in the hallway i saw him looking at me and smile so i smile back. Is he interested in me or what? He never intiated texting or calling me. It seems that i am the one who is more interested, liking and into him
SarahSo I’ve got this guy friend that I’m into. He’s in my friend group, which as a collective whole kind of found me, kidnapped me, and claimed me as their own back in May. He’ll do things that seem like signs he’s in to me, but has told me he’s not looking for anyone and it all gets very confusing. He’s taken me to friend’s BBqs of people who aren’t in our friend group, and he makes it a point to sit next to me anytime we’re out with our friends. We’ve even slept in the same bed multiple times and he’ll make it a point to get really close to me without ever actually doing anything. I mean REALLY close. According to mutual friends he seems to put alot of focus on me when we’re all together, and I’ve witnessed him bend over backwards for me when I’ve needed help with something. He’s an amazing friend, and a good friend, but the signals he’s sending seem really mixed. I called him out once for how crappy of a texter he was and it visibly bugged him for the rest of the night, and changed after that. The biggest thing that bugs me is that I’ve tried to sit down and talk to him about it, which is when he told me he still needed time from a prior relationship and wasn’t looking for anything, but he also told me he thought that’s what I needed too. And yet even though we had this conversation he continues to do things that suggest otherwise. I’d like to think that he isn’t stringing me along because we have a hug amount of respect for each other in this friend group, and he’s definitely not stupid enough to piss off so many people for his own ego, but does he like me? After our talk I backed off, and tried to just be a friend, but he keeps taking things to a level that isn’t quite dating, but is definitely more than friendship. He flirts alot, won’t let me leave without a hug, stares at me often, and always positions himself next to me, but this has been going on for over a month, and it hasn’t gone further than that. What’s going on?
RavenSarah… Is he gay?
JaniceHello!
There’s this guy in my school who’s pretty popular. He’s been liking me for almost 3 years now and I’ve Liked him for 2 years or something. I’ve told him I like him before but all he replied was ‘nice one’ and he thinks it’s a joke. My friends told him that I like him but he thinks it’s some prank. I’ve directly confessed that I like him but he didn’t give a direct answer. Nowadays he keeps giving eye contact but I turn away from him as soon as our eyes meet (crush anxiety, to be specific). I really want to ask him out but I’m scared of rejection and what his friends will think of me (he’s very popular and he has a lot of friends). PLEASE HELP ME. All my friends are telling me to get over him but I just can’t. I don’t know why. Maybe because I think he likes me. So should I ask him or should I pretend that I don’t like him anymore and go on with my life? Thanks for you help💕RavenOh Honey, if He liked you, He’d ask You out…
EmmaJanice sweetheart, this happens, we like someone, they don’t like us back or don’t like us enough. You are young, you need to learn that if a guy likes you, he’d find ways to “hang out” or find excuse to ask you out. Do not go chasing after him. You’d make him feel flattered, he’s “accept” but given that he was not all that into you, you’d always feel like you are running after him, he won’t text often, he’d be blowing hot and cold, his friends will be smirking at you, because of course he’d be boasting to them.
Your dignity first sweetheart! This means sometimes we need to suck it up. You can’t force men to go after you.
You can prompt and seduce them indirectly. Make him jealous, flirt with someone else in front of him, ignore him point blank. Make him feel like you do not care about him. Men deep down are very insecure, if a woman is NOT interested in them, they want to WIN her. THIS will get his attention guaranteed! LOL
KatHi,co worker guy who we know each other for about 2-3 yrs. He’s still nervous about talking 2 me at times. He always trying to be close and he sits by me nor around me enought to look -talk. Yes, we work together, but lately just met another co worker guy who suddenly talk 2 me almost year ago. we hit off then guess co worker friends. Whenever, I talk to him the one that nervous around me looks at me & keep asking me who I like nor I should ask the other guy out. He asks me lots of time if I have a bf. If I say no, he dont believe me and if I say yes, he says I can’t go out w/u bc you’re taken. What sup with that..does he like me & shy or just playing the field bc, of the attention
KatHi, co worker guy who looks at me while talking with another guy means? He ask me if the other guy is my bf, am interested in him,who I like, if I go out with my guy friends,what I do on wks, even mention one of his friends wants to ask me put but I don’t know his friends.seems werid idk…he looks at me alot but kind of nervous. Does he like me or just want attention
RavenThese guys sound like they are 15 years old!
AnastasiaLeave them all be, and go out with the man who asks you out explicitly. Also, do not mess work and relationships, especially with such wishy washy guys.
RosyMy daughter has a huge crush on a 15 year old chinese guy. She is a 13 years old Indian girl. The guy gives a long eye contact and has been doing it for the last 8 mths. Recently, he smiled at her and she was over the moon. He suddenly avoided her and tilted his head whenever he saw her for about a week. Then, he resumed to have eye contact and showed signs of interest. She is feeling confused and upset on why he is not making the first move to speak to her. I am really lost here too and tried to advise her.. Please advise on what she should do..
SheriI work with a man who is in his late 40’s and I am in my 40’s also. He flirts non stop we have been to each others house many times for dinner and a movie. He stares at me all the time. I also know he has been on dates with other women. He hasn’t told me this, but other people have. The last time we spent time together he put fifty shades of grey on. Nothing has happened with us.When he looks into my eyes I know for a fact he likes me. But why won’t do anything about it.
RavenWhy should he take you out when you go to him?
KerrySame question he touches me when he feels like it says he loves mwconce he was drunk touches me then says he doesnt remembef now we had a argument he blocked me but wants to still work with me at my job
StephenI know this is an old post but I want to say that this fellow probably hasn’t the slightest idea that the OP likes him. Women can make up a four act play in their heads about a man who barely knows that she’s alive.
BCI could have written this about myself. 6 years with a man behaving this way with me. Had to give up and find someone else in the end. He would even hold my hand, ask for a hug, share my bed, tell me he loved me, but no move was ever made.
Some times he’d tell me he was tempted to make a move, but worried it would ruin our friendship.
I’d have done anything to have him. He never made that move. I’m still friends with him now, but engaged to someone else
Just DessertsHe knows you’ll accuse him of rape. It’s a smart move on his part.
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