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Mile
I sent him a flirty message asking whether he wants to trade places with a stuffed animal that I was holding. I was referring to would you like to be hugged as this stuffed animal. He responded “haha no comment” . Then I responded “ok”
Does it mean he said no to me in a polite way. We have been texting back and forth and had couple of dates. So, this thing was out of the blue. Very confused since I thought we had romantic stuff happening between each other.
I guess we were just friends?NewbieI cant tell for sure but i do know many girls like to pretend they are Innocently flirting but are trying to get a reaction on how the guy feels about them instead. And the bad thing about this is: guys know this. So my best guess is he is teasing you back by not letting you know.
NewbieIm also not sure how many guys are into girls that are hugging stuffed animals. Maybe you should take the flirting to a more mature level
MileAlso should’ve I said something else other than just “ok”
NewbieNo ok is fine. Its best to let this guy chase you and not be overly flirty or sexual. Just watch his actions. Thats all you have to do
SandybeanI agree with newbie in that it was probably his way of flirting back. Or he could have been reluctant to be overtly sexual with you after just a couple of dates.
My boyfriend used to say that when we first started dating (I knew he was flirting) and at some point I asked him to tell me point blank what he actually thought when I teased him. His response made me blush because it was very explicit and he kind of smiled and reminded me that there was a reason why ‘no comment’ was safer. Especially in the first weeks when you don’t know the other person yet.
So I’d read it in a more positive light that he says that.AndreaThat wasn’t a flirty message, that was throwing yourself at him. It probably surprised him, or even outright turned him off. Let things progress naturally.
mellThis was just one comment – perhaps it took him by surprise, perhaps it’s so soon that he’s not sure you’re ready to hear what he really thinks. Pehraps he felt it’d be crude to say something like that to a girl he barely knows and hasn’t yet slept with.
Everyone flirts differently. ‘No comment’ ca be a perfectly reasonable response to flirting, it depends on the tone. My BF and I did a lot of skirtng around at first and gradually escalated the flirting up until we slept together. Of course we still flirt now, but nothing like that first buildup when we were really excited to take it further.
Look for reciprocity. Is he excited? Does he put in the time and effort back? does he do more than just flirt? If he isn’t attracted, you’ll find out pretty wuickly because he won’t waste his time dating you, so I wouldn’t worry aboyt that.
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