He told me he feels closer to me than before

I have been seeing this amazing guy for a year now.He knew about my past relationships and actually was into me all the time but ofcause he wanted the cookie like every other guy does but he is kinda different.He shows me respect and is very nice to me for someone who only wants the cookie.I broke off with my ex two years ago and we started sleeping together as kind of like a rebound.

We would be very adventurous in bed and it was fun because I felt like I could trust him because of how honest he was and never judged, he would always talk sense into my head and whenever I had trouble with a guy I’m going on a date with I would tell him about it.And he would give me advice.

So we saw each other only once or twice a month but he text me every day asking me how my day was how I’m feeling and always texting cute stuff but I found out he has a gf. And then he would just try not to lose me and yeah I did something stupid I went on to see him because he was the only guy I felt comfortable with being me without being judged.Its easy to talk to him and his so understanding and actually loves my company as he had said himself.

Anyway so just the other day he started acting strange on WhatsApp he told me his stress and that he wants to leave his girl because there relationship isn’t working out anymore he said.I said no why would he leave her and I talked some sense into his head because he has a child with her.And I knew this was just a phase nothing else and he was like :’But I need you right now, you the only person that keeps me happy besides my son’ I was like woah I never expected him to say that.I then told him to be strong man these things happens and it will get better.

So further on the next he started being all lovey Dovey with me over texting until Valentine’s day. I asked what’s up why is so weird because we just having sex nothing much and he said he will send me a voice note. And the voice note says :’Good morning babe and Happy Valentine’s day. You asking me what’s up.Okay, I feel like that we making this seem like it’s more than just a thing on the side and having fun but honestly this is how I feel man.I feel like we became more closer to one another not just by sex but if it was the sex we would have long time stop this but there’s a bond man and I think it’s how we became friends man and how long we been friends now so that makes it comfortable man like for both of us.We understand one another, we know alot about one another we went through s**t together we had out ups we have had our downs too for me, it’s almost like we super best friends and we share everything though so I like that man we always honest with each other and it’s hard to find somebody like that and you know how grateful I am for you omw Im so grateful and I appreciate you you know that by now and I would never choose another chick over you and when I told you I’m going through a rough time with my gf you were like there like no don’t make decisions when you angry now you see another girl wouldn’t have told me that.And I don’t know what I would do if I would lose you.So yup I’m just telling you how I feel about you’

After hearing that I was shocked that he felt that way. And I told him that I fell for him too and that just made me feel so close to him that I don’t know what to do and I told him we should take things slow.I mean it was fun in the beginning.We just started having sex and had fun no feelings attached and boom he breaks out telling that I was shocked and he wanted to know how I feel about him so I basically told him I’m on the same page as him and I said we can’t feel this way otherwise this is not going to work and he said it’s okay we can work through this babe I just don’t wanna lose you, he said. He has a girlfriend so what’s up with him. And also lately he doesn’t seem interested and it feels like that talk never happened or idk if his just guarded to not hurt my feelings or what was this sudden twist. Guys, I mean he still text me but not like before.His more civil now and try not show emotions but his like he has always been so I don’t know.Why he acted lovey Dovey one moment and the next moment his normal.I mean I’m fine with both because I know we friends and we just having sex but I feel like I fell for him and I been thinking about him continuously.I fell for him and I’m so scared cause I don’t know what to think or say. I can’t ask him what’s up.