He Unblocked Me, Shall I Message Him?

Ladies, a powerful and important lesson in life to learn is how to “LET IT GO!” When a man blocks, ignores or is being mean to you, he is telling you, that he wants nothing to do with you—there are no mixed messages here! I know it hurts when you have deep feelings for someone but you cannot control how people feel—its a futile waste of time and energy that is better spent with people who naturally like/love you; if they don’t you remove yourself from their life.

The best thing to do, in these situations, is to take your power back! YOU alone have the power to end the pain by blocking them back, and moving forward to a happier life with a man who will treat you with love, dignity, respect & kindness.

Those who create their own misery/pain, also have the ability to destroy it. You are 100% responsible for your happiness, and 100% responsible for your unhappiness. If you allow yourself to be “unhappy” by clinging onto men who avoid, ignore or hurt you, then you will remain in your self-induced puddle of pain. CHOICE is yours, and yours alone to be happy or miserable. If you enjoy being miserable, then stay miserable; if you don’t, then end the torture by cutting them completely out of your life.

@Sku Tufik, How very weird that you copied & pasted Flower’s response from 2018!