He won't look at my snapchat until I look at his

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October 30, 2015 at 5:12 pm #472381 Reply

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Full disclosure; only millentials will understand.

In a fading LDR, and the only way to see what eachother is doing is snapchat. He won’t view my stories until I view his. I want to see what he’s up to so bad but I dont want to give him that satisfaction. I still have feelings but have decided to NO CONTACT him for a month. Should I just stop watching his stories? Clearly he’s petty and immature, but it’s the only way to show him I no longer care. I dont want to block him because I want him to see what I’m up to and what I’m missing. Its just so hard not to watch his stories.

October 30, 2015 at 5:17 pm #472386 Reply

Gemini615

*eyeroll*

As a “millennial” I still find this snapchat an social media stuff stupid. This is just plain immature. Who cares about who is looking at whose snapchats? Why do you need to prove anything? You should be focused on moving on.

October 30, 2015 at 5:25 pm #472391 Reply

Khadija

Please delete his snap chat.
The best way to move on is by letting go and doing your own thing.
This is a very petty power struggle, be above that and stop this.

October 30, 2015 at 5:35 pm #472398 Reply

Jules

I’m a millennial and I don’t understand this.

You’re both being petty and immature in my opinion. If the relationship is over, let it be over. This Snapchat stuff is just game playing on both of your parts. Be the grown up here and remove him from your snapchat.

If you’re going to use no contact to move on (because that’s the real purpose of nc) then that needs to include snapchat and other social media outlets. What’s the point of not talking if you’re still going to be cyber stalking him?

October 30, 2015 at 5:47 pm #472403 Reply

kaye

I’m not a millennial so not going to pretend like I know how snapchat works. But no contact is just that… NO contact!!! None. Zip. Zilch. Nada. So that would include ANY social media of any kind. YES stop reading his stories.
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