Healing

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October 13, 2021 at 10:33 am #928297 Reply

Alaina

I was in a relationship that ended badly. I didn’t realize that it was emotionally and verbally abusive until it was over. He wasn’t faithful. We have a child together who he doesn’t prioritize. He has gone months without seeing our child. He calls but that doesn’t take the place of raising him. He told me no one would want to marry me amongst other hurtful things. Hes in a relationship with someone else now. I know he’s not the one for me but it hurts to see him move on and live life like he has no child. Can someone help me? How can I get over it?

October 13, 2021 at 11:47 am #928319 Reply

Khadija

I’d suggest going to see a therapist. In doing so it can help rebuild yourself esteem and help you to understand what a healthy relationship looks like.

October 13, 2021 at 12:10 pm #928324 Reply

Dex

Khadija, thank you. Seconded. OP, this one has to be handled by a professional. Many specialize specifically in dealing with these issues.

I repeat- as much as you don’t want to hear this, this is not one you can just solve with friends or family (though those are nice), this is way bigger than that and you need to get yourself into therapy.

Loads of self-love and good luck
-D
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