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Caren.
Julie
Hi, I have split up with my boyfriend today and feeling devastated. We both still love each other but for a few reasons our relationship can’t progress. I know breaking up is the right thing to do but I feel like I am suffocating in sadness tonight. It’s my decision and I know he is going to try and change my mind. I need to be strong but it’s so difficult when love is still there . I haven’t felt sadness like this in a very long time. I’m not sure how I’m going to deal with it .
Honeypie
One day at a time my friend… one day at a time. Concentrating on this evening and not texting, and then tomorrow the same. No further than that right now.
When’s the hardest time?
Julie
The hardest time is when he still tries to communicate with me and get me to change my mind. I just want to change my mind but I know it’s not right. Feel physically sick and broken.
Mos
for a few reasons or excuses? Is he beating you? Is he cheating? Doing heroin? Selling s×it on the dark web? Refusing to give all of that up?
What’s not right about it? How much of the drama is created in your own mind?
Caren
BetterOffSingle, what’s wrong with you?? This girl is hurting!! If you can’t say something supportive, don’t say anything.
Julie, if you know this is the right thing to do then you have to stick to it. Love is great but love on its own doesn’t make a good sustainable relationship. You have to tell him to respect that you need to be left alone right now and if you have to, you should block him if he won’t stop contacting. You have to take care of yourself first and you shouldn’t be pressured into doing something you know isn’t right.
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