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Lost
Hi,
So I recently met this guy just over Instagram. Then he found me and we started chatting over snapchat. Can conversation was going really well and we were talking every day for about two weeks!
Now he’s not engaging. He sends me a ton of snapchats and always opens mine if I send him one or reply to his. But he doesn’t write back.
Granted… he’s on vacay out of the country for a couple weeks so it’s not like I expect him to really be super conversational but still…
did he lose interest? Is there anyway to revive this situation? I was really starting to like this guy..Raven
When did you meet in person?
Lost
Unfortunately we haven’t. ITs only been a couple weeks and ye lives out of state. But he seemed super interested and now all of a sudden things just went silent… is this the social media version of ghosting? Lol
Raven
What is the outcome you are hoping for?
Lost
Honestly, at first, nothing. I’m open to meeting people in other cities, it’s just once we started talking it went so well! We have a lot in common and a similar sense of humor and our conversations have been fun and he has a lot of good qualities that I’ve noticed. I figured I’d keep it casual for a bit longer and hopefully the conversation might turn deeper and maybe eventually get to a place where we could talk on the phone maybe eventually meet. But honestly it hasn’t been long enough to really develop any sort of feelings to desire a specific outcome really… my interest in him has just been piqued. He seems really nice and like someone I’d want to get to know more if given the chance :)
It’s difficult to get that chance In this situation, idk what changed all of a sudden… I’m sure I haven’t said anything wrong or anything.Raven
Why would you assume you did something wrong?
Honestly, you’re way too invested in a guy you’ve no met & likely never will…
Lynn
Who cares what happened? You haven’t met so you can’t take it personally. Just forget him and next time he messages you, tell him you don’t want to talk anymore then block him.
Poppy
Oh dear.. take a dating fast and stay away from dating for a while, work on yourself.
Kelly
I don’t understand the point of meeting someone out of state who you can’t spend time dating in person! What is the point? I know many men do this because they already have gfs, wives, or are emotionally unavailable so having a woman far away keeps them literally at a distance so that they can keep their options open.
It’s rare these things ever turn into anything but heartbreak for the woman.
Lost
lol I’m not invested in this I’m just simply asking what reasons would be for the conversation to die off.
I actually have a lot of friends who have found guys out of state and things have worked out great so I’m definitely not knocking it.
But thanks for the positive vibes lolkelly
Why he lost interest?
Well, if I consult my psychic it would be:
– he found someone else
– he already has a GF
– he got bored just talking online and wants to actually be with a woman in person
– he was bored to begin with and now he has a real life outside of a computer
– he doesn’t like your pics anymore
– his GF found out and shut it down
– he has you on rotation, and is focusing on another woman right now, but will come back to you once he gets through the other women firstOk… are you happy?
No one can respond why a person does something. We can only guess as much as you do. So if that is really your question: consult a psychic? Or just ask him.
Sun
We couldn’t help infer that you’re invested because based on how the situation is, you are already concern that he has somewhat dropped off in communicating when he is just really likes your social media accounts to be following it and had a back and forth for some time. Did you think that it’s more than just following you and being social media buddy? That eventually, he will ask you out? Because it is very clear that, that was not his intention at all from the beginning because if it was, he would keep it going. But you are also not the only woman he’s meeting and communicating this way.
You are left wondering because you had another motive and it fell apart when he just stopped engaging. Lesson learned: until a man tells you he likes you followed up with asking you on a real date, he is just a stranger that is here now and could be gone anytime. That should be your mindset.
v
If you weren’t invested you wouldn’t go to this website and post about it.
I don’t get how I see so many people on here who are so worried/concerned with someone they’ve only texted? If they drop off how can you even take it personal? They’ve never met you! And obviously it’s not about your looks because they thought you were cute enough to begin speaking with.
We’re not mind readers so we can’t tell you why he stopped talking to you. Probably because he got bored because he doesn’t know you?
Also – what’s up with people getting interested in men that live states or countries away?
The level of desperation here. Jeez.
P
I agree with V here…. why are girls becoming so clingy and needy? he is a pen pal and that’s about it. Why are you sending him snaps when he isn’t replying to you? Have you ever thought he probably think oh my goodness this girl never stops? I have a snapchat buddy but we’ve a streak for consecutive days. Meaning he sends me snaps and I send him snaps. We have came to a conclusion that we are pen pals that’s about it. This is our norm. I send him a snap, he sends me a snap. I send him a message in a snap…he messages me back or he sends something i reply. This is how it goes.
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