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Amy Elderfield
Hi i really need some advice. me and my ex partner have been together for 9 years we have broken up in that time but the last time was 4 years ago when he begged for me be back.. he recenelty has broken up with me and said he just want to live his life and that we arent good for one another, i never saw this coming as i was happy…
he blocked me on everything and didn’t speak to me cos he says I need to move on, I have moved out of our home (2 weeks ago) and this week its like hes changed his tune a bit we used to hve a dog together which he has kept and lsat week he ws saying it wont help me by seeing her and now this week he has said we can meet for a dog walk but hes not leading me on… hes obv misisng me right? how can he go from not ever wanting to talk to me to then meeting up for a dog walk? he said he just wants to help me get over him and our dog which is so tough…
advice please?! does he stil llove me and why doesnt he want to see me if he thinks its just helping me to get over him.
Ewa
the only reason I could think of , is because the woman he left you for is no longer interested in him…
why would you even want to speak/meet him? he blocked you, that is a very immature thing to do hence why I think he already had someone else but it didn’t work out.amy
he didnt leave me for anyone else… he just thought life is to short he wants to go out more has commitment issues which i think stem from his childhood.
he blocked me cos i wouldnt stop ringing and begging him i couldnt help it but hes changed his tune now but he says he isnt meeting me to lead me on its purely so i can see the dog… i just dont know what to think.
Ewa
Amy: man will never tell you I am leaving you for someone else , he said he wants to have fun which basically means he wants to be single and explore other options .
He wants to have his cake and eat it . He noticed you are no longer chasing that’s why he is back in touch . He left you , it doesn’t matter if he changed his tune. If he really loved you, wanted to be with you etc he wouldn’t leave you and second time already as well … have some self respect and cut him off completelyGaia
9 yrs and he has commitment issues? Run, run far away! This man is nothing but a jerk trying to keep you as a placeholder while he finds someone else. That’s what it means when he says life is short and he wants his freedom.
Take time to heal. Get your own pet. I know it won’t replace the one you lost to him but it will give you companionship. Do not talk, text or visit with the ex. He is an EX. Treat him as such.
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