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Veronica
I have been dating this guy. We hung out almost every weekend and had sex a few times before winter break. I thought he really liked me but over break he rarely texted me or he would go silent after a few replies. I also noticed that he updated his tinder profile. I was upset at first but I thought were not official and are not going to see each other for awhile anyway. After break I snap chatted him and we talked almost everyday for a week and then he came over and we had sex. I texted him a few days later but he stopped after a few replies. I didn’t hear from him for another week until he sent me a Snapchat of a dog at the gym. A few days later he sent me a picture of his roommate’s cat. I was upset and deleted him from all my social media but I don’t think he noticed. I started wondering if he was upset because when I didn’t have a condom I had said “I must’ve run out.” I asked him what he was doing one night and he said he was watching a movie with his friends. Again he stopped after a few replies. I added him back on my social media and sent him a pic of a coffin I found on Craigslist with the caption this is how I want to be buried or something like that. He replied that Craigslist is a scary place. He didn’t say anything about how he did t contact me for almost 3 weeks. My question is should I move on from him? I’m not even sure if he’s ghosting me or not. Is he playing with me or did I do something wrong? I thought he liked me but I don’t know anymore.
RavenYou are in Booty Call City Limits…
mamaYou are a booty call at this point. He dishes out the bare minimum just in case he wants another hookup, but he’s not invested in you in any way at all other than something very casual.
You didn’t do anything wrong at all. He sounds young and interested in friends, freedom, and fun at this point in his life. Yes you should move on from him if you want something more. If you do want more, stop responding to him when he pulls this breadcrumbing trick and focus your time and efforts on finding someone else who is more aligned with what you want. Good luck to you dear. :)
tammyhe likes you and hooks up with you occasionally. that’s about it. nothing here girl. start going out meeting new men new dates..
AlliHow soon did you sleep with him after you met? Too soon? Did you establish any boundaries upfront? Sounds like he’s walking all over you and you’ve allowed it, which is why he continues. He’s not your guy, Dear. Guys won’t not contact you for 3 weeks if they like you! Learn from this and move on. Btw, why would you send him a coffin with that caption? Maybe something is missing from your post or it’s an inside joke. Read the articles on this site!
TallspicyI am so sorry queenie! Major hugs
MarieThis is literally what is happening to me! I asked several guy friends of mine what they think and they all said to stop talking to the guy. He is using you. I know how hard it is to hear this and you might even have feelings for this man. But if you want a real relationship i would steer clear of him. If he wanted to talk to you he would make it happen.
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