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Sarah224
Guy That I’m interested in has viewed all of my intsagram stories since January despite me updating my stories frequently.
for the last 2 weeks I’ve been on a holiday and I’ve updated my instagram story everyday, often multiple times a day. He has viewed all of my stories. Sometimes he has viewed them in minutes (more than once)
what’s confusing is that when I’ve posted multiple stories he views like couple of them and them comes little bit later to view the rest of them.
I don’t know he could mute me if he was annoyed or something. Also he always eventually views all of my story updates.maybe he doesn’t want to seem eager or creepy since he’s constantly viewing them.
Liz Lemon
You are way overthinking this. Maybe he’s busy, and that’s why he doesn’t view all your stories immediately? You can’t read anything into social media. When I view people’s stories on IG, it automatically rotates through the stories, so I see lots of people’s stories that I had no intention of viewing. IG just automatically scrolls through.
I’m not trying to say that he isn’t intentionally viewing at least some of your stories. He probably is. But do you two talk? How much contact do you have with this guy? Has he ever asked you out? That’s more important than whether he views your social media.
mama
from Liz….
“I’m not trying to say that he isn’t intentionally viewing at least some of your stories. He probably is. But do you two talk? How much contact do you have with this guy? Has he ever asked you out? That’s more important than whether he views your social media.”I think that’s what she’s trying to get — him asking her out! :) This is how it’s done these days. And my assumption is that she’s asking how to turn this into a date.
I’m sure her stories are enticing and say everything they need to say – she’s living life, she’s independent, she’s happy… I think she’s just trying to close the deal on her efforts. ;)
Yezzy
i’m currently going through the same thing. Going to post for advice soon. We stopped talking a few months ago and recently just randomly requested me on IG. Not sure how he found me but he Liked all of my photos and is always the first to view my stories. I thought he would send me a message but still hasn’t. I’m don’t want to be the first to msg because I don’t want to get left on read. But I don’t want to think to deep into it because when a man wants to be with a woman, there is no stopping him.
tammy
whether a man follows you and views your stories pics all that is not really important unless that gets followed by DM from him. or if your ok with making the first move and breaking the ice, you can always say hello. then take it from there. if hes interested he will take it from there. if not, you will have your answer. don’t over think this.
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