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Hannah
I have no idea why he contacted you and it was rather stupid of him as now you could forward his messages to the fiance if you wanted to ruin his life. He felt bad, he was doing it as damage limitation or he still wants something from you. Who knows? He’s made it clear you were a one-night stand and he is not leaving his partner for you, so that’s all you need to know.
He did play you though I’m sorry to say. He told you he loved you. You know that’s not true don’t you? So why believe anything else that came out of his month?
My sister is a sucker for players. All her tales of men sound like romantic dreams too. They all use and discard her, leaving her devastated. If something sounds like a fantasy, it most probably is!
Rachel
The reason he said all of that to you “I haven’t done this before, I haven’t stopped thinking of you” etc etc was to get you into bed- can you not see that? I do feel for you and I don’t mean to be harsh, but for your own sanity you need to stop romanticising this. He’s in contact now because he wants to hook up whenever you’re both in the same place, plus he’s probably slightly worried you’ll spill the beans to his fiancé! You say you have no mutual friends, but by your own admission you were both at a party where you both knew the host and you’ve met half of his colleagues, as has his fiancé! Trust me, he’ll be bricking himself. Walk away now while you still feel like you have some dignity. He has no intention of leaving her, although he’d be doing her a massive favour of he did
kiara
what if he told u the truth about his feelings?? , he just can’t breakup with her fiancée cuz theres a reason !! , we are allowed to love .. but to know WHO and WHEN , even thought he has a fiancée and he thought he really loved her , maybe now when he saw that out there are still some girls that could make him happy the way he wants , he’s not a bad person cuz he will go on with his life with a girl he doesn’t “love” her, and you you have more easy ways cuz you will fall in love with another man that will make you to forget this man :( I’M sorry for him (if he says the truth) …
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