He's leaving for two weeks

Why would you not communicate while he’s gone? It’s only 2 weeks! Are you a couple or just started seeing each other?

Did he say why he can’t communicate? are there other problems between you 2?

What? He only told you today he’s going away for 2 weeks tomorrow? Is this a last minute trip?

I have managed to communicate with my husband from very remote parts of the world. Maybe not every day but sometimes. What does he do for work? Security, military, something like that?

He told me about the trip few times but didn’t told be the exact date except it will be on third to last week of this month. It’s research related work.

It’s a couple of weeks,hardly anything. Do your own thing. If he likes you he’ll contact you while he’s traveling or when he gets back. If he doesn’t then no loss, it wasn’t the trip that did it, he just didn’t like you enough.

Angel

You sound anxious.

You should not to get too anxious about someone you are unsure about.

If he changes his mind next week, next month, next year…there is nothing you can do about it.

Direct that anxiousness into something you can actually do something about. Watch T.V., clean your home, read a newspaper, go for a walk. There is a world out there waiting for you. Is your time better spent worrying about this guy or relaxing your mind?

In the past, guys who like me and have been on trips contact me while they’re away. but it also depends on where theyr’e going, how many dates you’ve been on

Anxiety I know. Just thinking that, if he is doesn’t like me enough, why would he date me? Is that make sense? You can give me suggestions to make things clearer for me so I would consider what is the best thing to do. So, if he doesn’t like me that much, I don’t think I would like it. He must like me enough.

We have been very close, our last date was Valentine. He told me his worries and fears ( just for info) that he might not be a good boyfriend because of his busy schedules and work commitment. He told me e wanted to do the right thing if he commit with me totally. So, I begin to love him and I know he feels that too. I understand that there are times he can’t text or call but this is two weeks straight and without communication for that long is something that bothers me.

Perhaps you should date others if you are not exvlusive.

Tell him how you are if you are exclusive – just prepare for answers you may not like to hear

Angel,

I agree with you, why can’t he communicate? Ask him. This is not right. If you do not get to hear a plausible explanation, then start withdrawing and prepare to move on. It is ok to go on trip and not to talk much during this time, and two weeks is not that long a time, but why such a restriction that he specifically knows that he won’t be able to communicate and yet does not explain why? What friends is he going with?

Thank you.
Yes Maria . During our phone call last night, we talked about the trip and instead of asking I let him know that 2 weeks is very long because we always communicate often, I guess the longest was 5 days of no contact. Is it too needy of me when once I told him to pls let me know how things are going cause I worry. This time he didn’t mention anything and when I told him that two weeks is very long with no calls or even text he only answered “yes”.

And Redcurley I sent him a message just now. Telling him that I miss the time when he tries to contact me no matter where he is. But now I feel he don’t feel like doing it. These last few weeks I felt he’s getting distant, I think i will be okay in moving on but just hard because we really had great times so I want to consider how we bond together. This is why I feel confused and bit hurt.