He’s looking at other girls

Hayley, yes, you are reading way into a big fat nothing burger.

He said absolutely nothing that should have made you jealous. Like he said, he was stating a fact, which you agreed with, so not sure why you’re trying to pick a fight with him? You keep acting like this, and he will eventually get tired of the drama, or worse stop telling you what he’s thinking, which is something I’m sure you wouldn’t want, as its barrier to building trust, and closeness, with a partner.

From what you stated as how things went – yes, you are reading way too much into this. He told you his observation and, what I got from it, it sounds as if he wasn’t all in agreement with how those girls were dressed.

I’m all for open communication but sorry to say – you were on a mission to find a smoking gun.

Nobody enjoys having their words twisted or assigned a motive. He gave you an explanation yet you rejected what he said to dig for a crime to pin on him. Do this enough and things will go south really fast.