He's texting less..

Continuous conversations every day for 2 months? That is starting off WAY too strong if you ask me. Of course the texts are going to decrease. That level of extreme communication is not sustainable, and both of you need some space from it. How many times have you actually met this guy?

To answer your question, wait for him to get in touch again. The only true measure of interest is the time he spends with you, not how often he texts you.

A lot of texting and no dates means low interest

A lot of dates and minimal texting means high interest.

This is all women really need to know, unless he makes time to spend in person, you are wasting your time.

Are you saying there was two months of daily texting and yet you were just getting around to a 2nd date which he just cancelled!?! First off you are absolutely right that the 2nd date should be him taking you out and doing something fun and not an at home date at his place!! It sounds like he is talking and seeing other girls and therefore doesn’t have the time to fit you into his schedule. As some of the others have said his interest level is very low where you are concerned. It shouldn’t take this long to plan a 2nd date when a guy is interested. I’m sure he sensed your frustration in your last text to him and that’s why he hasn’t contacted you. Again, if a guy was interested he would want to make sure you knew he only canceled because he absolutely had to and he would be concerned about hurting your feelings. This guy frankly doesn’t seem to care.

I use to let this bother me before I came to this forum.

Once I read the articles on what texting means to men vs women I stopped fretting.

My bf use to text a lot to in the early beginning. but we also saw each other and talked on the phone. His text were usually brief, like gm have a great day, or good night, talk to you tomorrow or something to that effect. If I’m at work and he has or we have to talk about something we’re planning is the only time we text a lot during the day. I can’t always spend time on the phone neither can he.

Now here we are after a year and I notice he can text a lot when he’s mad about or worried about something. for him it was better to write it out than verbal. I didn’t prefer that method but at least it kept us talking. Once that issue dissolved, it was back to short text and regular phone calls, in person meetings.

I have a sister who also loves text wars, they say it helps keep a record of things and make sure there no misunderstanding………but that’s not your question i know.

If all ya’ll are doing is texting and not meeting then this decrease in text will only decrease more sorry.

Hi Isla-No,don.t ask. He will either contact,ask you out again soon-maybe he has been distracted or busy with something,or he won’t. If another few days goes by with nothing happening-then that is your answer,isn’t it?
If he does take you out,you could have a general talk about communication and what is usual for him etc. If he tails off,then I would leave it,move on. Sorry,it is disappointing when these things happen.

What’s with the resurrection of all these old posts???..