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Mika
Hi I know it’s been two years but can you tell me what you did and who the girl turned out to be. It would help me alot right now. Also in retrospect how would you deal with the situation today. Regards
Stacey M
Remain your composure. Always remember to love yourself first. Do not be afraid to lose someone who plays the games, whom are half interested in you, give you half their time, be confusing or have another girl’s pic up in fb while getting intimate with you. If you love yourself, this would be not acceptable to you. But you don’t act mad, is it even worth it if you truly value yourself. He can have her, she can have him. You are moving on. Don’t even bother.
If he wants to talk to you, he would. And when he do, calmly say you’re not interested in a relationship or continuing develops whatever he thinks this is. You’ve got better fish to catch girl.Hs
Good grief women put up with crap lately. I couldnt even read all the responses of he’s not your boyfriend, he has the fullest right to sleep with other women, dont communicate, you do the same…
You all so badly want to play it cool. You want to know who never gets anywhere? The cool girl
You have to set your boundaries from the start.
If i meet someone i dont feel any special connection with, i dont date him again in the hopes my feelings will somehow grow
When i do meet someone special, i will take myself of the market and date him exclusively till we decide to call it quits or commit. I expect the same from any man. I’m not the girl you sleep with tonight, and tomorrow you take another girl on the date
I dont force him. I dont give him an ultimatum. I give him my standards. Its his choice if he wants to live up to it or not
You weed quite a few idiots (who was never going to be serious about you no matter how cool you are) out this way, and are left with only serious contenders
I say, just ask him. Maybe shes his cousin or friend or whatever. If not, now is the time to make your boundaries clear. He is free to continue seeing other people, but you will not be sleeping with him if thats the case.
Whether you want to continue dating him is your decision. I would not. A man who is in love, truely interested would be focuussing his attention on that girl only. In my opinion if you play it cool, he will continue dating you and others until he meets the girl that interests him
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