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Mina
I’ve met this guy online but not through a dating app, just a social network. We realised we have similar interest and can talk for hours. So we decided to add each other on Snapchat and continue our conversation there. It’s been 3 days since started talking about the things we like, food, travel, TV shows. We from different country so I’m seeing him as my online friend and I think he said he does too. Only today that I realised I didn’t ask how old he was. I found out that his only 22 while I’m 31.
I’m not sure if I should talk talking to him. Is this weird? What should I do?
Liz LemonYou’re just talking, right? Why can’t you be friends with the guy? I don’t see anything wrong with it.
Are you interested in him romantically? When I was in my early 30s I dated a guy 10 years younger than me for a couple years. It didn’t work out for various reasons but our ages weren’t a huge factor. We enjoyed each other’s company and had things in common. Men do it all the time– date significantly younger women– and no one bats an eye.
SsIf you are just online friends then why does his age matter?
MinaWe are just online friends but I’m worry that in long term either me or him might develop feelings since we get along so well. His really kinda and sweet, it just fun talking to him. I talk to him more than I talk to any of my friends since he would msg me everyday.
One of my friend said, since his msging you everyday that means he think about you, he will definitely get attach. But I always thought that men don’t get interested just my msging, they need interaction too.
I’m just scare that if things change the pressure of being judge is too much to handle. I know it’s fine when men date younger women, but the minute it’s the other way around everyone think it’s wrong.
Part of me is saying I shouldn’t think too much and just go with the flow and whatever happen, happen.
RavenMake sure to continue to live your life off your phone… Get out of your house & meet people in person.
Don’t sit & wait for messages. While you’re out, keep your phone off/muted/in your bag…
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