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Jo.
Anonymous
Hi,
To sum up, I told this guy that I didn’t want to continue a friendship with him because he was manipulative as a potential boyfriend and I didn’t find him really interesting to keep him as a friend.
After replying to my text, he posted this quote on social media:
“Give people time to understand your love language but be honest enough with yourself to know your love language is not for them.
Connection runs deeper than laughs and hugs. Compatibility runs deeper than patience and tolerance. Comfort runs deeper than closeness and chemistry.”
I’ve read the quote several times, and I don’t understand it, and neither do my friends.
How do you understand this quote? Thank you.
Tallspicy
Who cares? You broke up with him. He is saying, or the quote is saying, not everyone gets you, and deeper relationships are deeper.
Raven
It’s an attempt @ manipulation. Defriend him…
Lane
You need to break it down.
“Give people time to understand your love language but be honest enough with yourself to know your love language is not for them. Answer: You are unable to love him the way he needs to be loved to be in love.
Connection runs deeper than laughs and hugs. Answer: You don’t connect on a level that goes beyond the surface and makes his heart pitter patter.
Compatibility runs deeper than patience and tolerance. Answer: You being patient and tolerant is not the type of compatibility he seeks in a woman.
Comfort runs deeper than closeness and chemistry.” Answer: He didn’t feel comfortable with you in the way that allows him to get closer and nearer to a woman he loves.
Hope this helps.
Anonymous
Thank you very much Lane.
Your explanation makes sense.
LaFrance Thibodeaux
@ Lane🌹🌹🌹🌹
Manila
Compatibility runs deeper than patience and tolerance.
alia
Translation: I’m butthurt.
Paige
What Dangerouse and Alia said:
“I’m butthurt and it’s all your fault.”
Newbie
Didnt you say he is manipulative? Now you have a new example and youre puzzled by him (again)
Just be glad you told hom off
Anonymous
@Newbie, Paige, Nalia and Dangerous
Thank you. Your answers give a new perspective and make perfect sense.
@ Newbie
Yes, he is.
Everything was always my fault. According to him, he was always about to change his mind but conveniently at that exact time I would do something that would put him off.
He posted this quote after I ended our friendship and let him know I met someone with whom I had great chemistry and with whom the friendship feels organic.
I asked about the quote meaning because I didn’t want to read too much into it.
The next day, he posted a quote saying: ” there is ma y ways to say “I love you”. A simple “hello” can mean “I love you”. I blocked him.
Anonymous
I meant: I asked you guys about the quote because I didn’t want too much into it.
I didn’t ask anything directly to him.
The day after he posted the quote in question, he posted “there are many ways to say “I love you”, a simple “hello” can mean “I love you”.
Jo
He’s a prat.
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