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cupcake.
Soph
I have finished the no contact period and after reaching out I received a (in my opinion) pretty positive response. So far we have had 3 short conversations, he has mentioned missing my dog, asked about my life, mentioned im his type, we teased eachother about a game we used to play and reminded each other of how good the sex was.
In our last conversation I’m worried I scared him with somethjng I said because he didnt reply to me all evening, only a short reply the morning after.
How much should I be texting him in this phase after no contact? I don’t want to scare him away again by being overly enthusiastic.
T from NY
Men who are scared away are NOT bf material. The fact you reached out and have had convos that included references to how good past sex was, and he still has not asked you out, begged you back or tried to begin courting you back, also means he is NOT bf material.
You should not be paying so much attention to his actions or wondering his feelings. Concentrate on you and why you would be interested in someone who has lost you once, but is doing no work to get you back. You deserve more.
Raven
You are setting yourself up for a booty call.
cupcake
What was the status of your relationship before you went NC. And why did you go NC and for how long? How did he act during it?
I could warrant a guess, but i rather have all the info first.
cupcake
What was the status of your relationship before you went NC. And why did you go NC and for how long? How did he act during it?
cupcake
Meh…sorry for the double post 😕 I thought the first one got deleted , so i posted again 🤪
Soph
We dated for only 3 months and he wanted a serious relationship. I’m the one who was afraid to get hurt and ended up pushing him away. I was also insecure because he needs a lot more alone time then I did. That’s why he broke it off with me.
I dis no contact for 6 weeks ans he hasnt reached out in the meantime.
cupcake
Ok. So he wanted something serious, but you didn’t. Yet at the same time you were demanding he spend more time with you?
That is pretty contradictory behaviour, so i am not surprised he broke it off with you and seems reluctant to rekindle. (I am not sure why you want to rekindle either tbh).I mean what has changed? I’m guessing not much in 6 weeks.
What did you say that you think “scared him off”?
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