how often do you see the guy you're dating?

There isn’t really any set schedule for a relationship, it’s whatever works for you. If you’re OK seeing him once a week then that’s fine, two months isn’t that long anyway. I’ve been seeing my guy for almost 9 months and there’s still times we only get to see each other once week because of scheduling conflicts. If he’s not stepping up in another couple of months and you want more you can try suggesting an evening out through the week and see how he responds, but at this stage I’d say just keep doing what you did before you met him and enjoy the dates you get.

Thank you for your replies :)
I am not a big texter so I don’t mind that we text infrequently. I’d rather see him than text. I work on weekends in the morning unfortunately, and we works a lot during the week so gets very tired in the evenings, but I have seen him during the week at times. I am happy that I see him weekly (I used to date a guy who would only see me once every 2 or 3 weeks, drove me crazy, never again. It is what led me to this forum and change of mindset). But I would like to eventually see him 2 or 3 times a week, depending how it goes.

Mela
I am really happy for you, this should be the best phase or one of the best.
I would give anything to have what you have (in the positive way) of course.
Someone interested, consistent at least once a week, showing they care. You said you are both busy. So, as far as he continues showing this behavior I think you to are both more than good.
Enjoy this moment.

It really depends on the man and my schedule, to be honest.

The guy I’m seeing now aims to see me twice a week with 3 nights of heavy texting/contact. Because of my schedule it’s not always possible to do two nights together, though.

The guy I just ended things with, though, god, he was so obsessed with work and I’d seem him once a week, if lucky, with very little contact between. Phone calls had to be scheduled. And then I hadn’t seen or heard from him in two weeks and he texted to ask me out. Uh, no. I didn’t doubt his interest level because he was a genuine guy. He just moved here and started a new job and takes his work very seriously. But that triggers something in me from my past marriage. But, for him, this is reasonable, so he needs someone who’s a little more detached.

I’ve also been seeing someone about once a week with sporadic texting in between. I like not texting too much because i think texting all the time makes you feel closer than you really are and it can cloud your judgment in the beginning. It’s nice to get to know someone in person. We usually make plans 2-4 days in advance and touch base the night before/morning of the date. I’m concerned though because last week, he asked if he could see me again this week and I said yes. He doesn’t seem to take for granted that I will have time for him or come see him (which is good). He had a really busy week and we checked in on Wednesday (today is Friday), and I initiated that conversation. Since I asked him out last week, reached out during the week, and he is the one with the busier schedule, I feel like I should have heard from him by now if he expects to see me tomorrow. Because it’s usually so consistent, I’m wondering if I’ll even hear from him at all…I would be understanding if he said he didn’t have time for a date after all, but I don’t appreciate him not saying anything about it and leaving me wondering whats going on. Opinions? And if I do see him again, what is a good way of expressing that if he wants to continue seeing me, I don’t mind not talking every day but I still would always like to know where we stand with our plans.

When me and my boyfriend first got together once a week was fine then we increased it to twice cause we was struggling unfortunately our budget doesn’t come up to anymore then that sometimes i will see him 3 times a week but atm we’re both kind of skint and don’t have the travel fare, its been 7 months so i guess i cant complain too much i do love him already but i kind of just want to skip all this agro and get to the good times of our relationship. iam ill too so that does make it harder for us is it bad that i just want to jump into a time machine go to when all is well and we live together, and this awkward horrible part is over :( feels like i hug and kiss him and within 5mins hes back home really sucks how fast the time goes and how little we get to spend together.

I live an hour and a half from my guy who i have been seeing for abput 3 months. We first saw each other every week for first month but now due to home life i only see him once a forniggt. I am still sharing the house i own with my ex and dobt have a place of my own my new guy has said thst when i do he will come tp me is mu new guy really into me

Has he asked you to be exclusive? If not, he might be going out with and/or sleeping with other women in other nights.